What are some tips for dating as a single dad?

Getting back to the dating scene can be tough for anyone, let alone a single dad who is working on balancing life with their parental responsibilities. In the age of online dating, we're looking for more than just a crude algorithm to help us find people with whom we might be compatible. One easy way to think about approaching dating is to logically expand your social circle with quality people you'd likely want to date. This won't only make it easier for you, but much more likely you'll find somebody with a compatible sensibility - which certainly helps if you're thinking about making it a smoother transition for your kids. Full disclosure: I'm the CEO of http://goo.gl/E38e9k, a mobile app that lets you date using LinkedIn profiles, and we've basically been trying to accomplish just that. Think of it as getting to know 3 basic facts about a person before you decide to express interest - 1. where they're from, 2. what they do for a living and 3. their educational background. And FYI, it's completely anonymous to browse and like or pass on people - though of course, if both like one another the app will let you know you matched.

Most important thing - Be honest with your kids You might be tempted to keep your dating a secret from the kids, at least for a while. However, in my years as a therapist, I have found that secrets can do incredible damage to a relationship, even when well-intentioned. You don’t have to give your kids every minute detail. Just say something like, “Now that your mother and I have separated, I will be taking things slow and meeting some new people. I am in no rush to settle down and I am not going to make any decisions without telling you first.” Your honesty will be so crucial in helping them to feel secure in their relationship with you and their future.