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What Is A Gentleman To Do? Ex-Girlfriend Dating a Pimp?

• I had this adorable girlfriend that I loved and admired for her intelligence and classical education, but she’s absolutely NOT the "hot woman" type: she’s mousy, chubby, shy and very nerdy. This happened at a time where a schoolmate reconnected with me, he was known as the school thief at the time, but now he had become a steady income pimp. I told him about my new girlfriend and how odd it was that, being such a wonderful woman, she had never had a boyfriend, never got married, and how lonely she was because she had lost both her parents and had no family left. I also told him, foolishly, that she was an IT specialist and a computer hacker and that she had a very nice salary and house, etc. When I told him about her, I noticed his eyes started shining intensely. I had a very bad gut feeling. A few days later, she broke with me and I found out very soon that she was seeing him, the pimp and school thief. A friend told me that the Pimp had told everybody that he had undertaken to deliberately destroy our relationship and put her under his service. I must mention that the Pimp had always made a move on my ex-girlfriends, he is very masculine and attractive, he's a "hot bad boy". He can sweep any woman off her feet. But I had forgiven and forgotten this personality trait as a good Christian. This took place last year. Now my ex-gf is head over heels "in love" with the Pimp. He pretends he loves her and he is pressuring her to marry him because he probably wants a share of her assets and salary, perhaps he wants to steal her identity for his sister who is a drifter. He pretends to love her, but he has already cut any sexual contact with her saying that sex must be kept for marriage. I'm very worried and I feel very guilty for introducing this naive and innocent girl to this Pimp. Her personality is already completely transformed: she wears skanky clothes, she's smoking and taking drugs. She wanted to get married and have chidren, he convinced her that she didn't need that. He's such a skilled manipulator, that she'll protect him unconditionally, even though she KNOWS that the Pimp did purposefully separate her from me in bad faith. She's completely under his spell. She has no family, no friends to look after her interests, she's bipolar and very vulnerable. I'm really concerned that he will use her and abuse her and treat her as a step ladder to feed his blind ambition and greed. He always wants more and more. She is aware that he treats her like a maid, but she says she's happy to serve him. My 2nd concern is that he often talked to me about how great it would be to blackmail politicians and judges, in case he got charged, and the best way to do it with be by hacking their porn accounts, every man has porn accounts ... he used to talk about that oftentimes, but I didn't take him seriously. Now, it seems that his dreams will become true, because this girl will undoubtedly teach him how to hack and when that happens, this will become a national security concern. I really don't know what to do, since this woman is an adult with a college degree. She's been feeling suicidal lately because he keeps her in a subservient position and claims he's never satisfied with her efforts to please him. She's been posting regularly on the Internet, how lonely, depressed and suicidal she feels. Once, I responded to tell her to go to the Hospital Emergency. The Pimp, immediately posted a posting saying: "How does it feel to be strapped to a hospital bed?" to discourage her from going to the emergency. He might want to get rid of her, because she's becoming too clingy. He has so many other women at his disposal, what is she thinking? A couple of friends already warned her to no avail. What should we do, just watch the unfolding tragety or how can we intervene? WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

• Answer:

  first send her this informatio. second because she had little emoionally as far as friends, and or relatioship coupled with low self-esteem she is vulnurable. so we can boost her sense of self-worth by truthful information that if she were to think about them, then she has a chnace of developing a strong self-esteem and come out of her situation with his stupid individual. By the way, i don't have a porn account. :) go ahead and give me some way fo contacting this girl, maybe by the url to one of er questions. so then i could hep her with self-esteem. because i am an expert at that.