How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back?

How can I get my ex-girlfriend back?

• Okay, so my ex-girlfriend broke up with me a little less than three weeks ago. We had been in a dedicated relationship for 6 months before this, and we got along very well. I tried to give her everything as a boyfriend, from a long, mushy Valentine's Day card to even writing and singing a song for her around Christmas. We never argued, I almost always agreed with her, and I always tried to be there for her. One day she told me we needed to talk. She told me she felt like we had been growing apart as of late because we were both busy making new friends in a musical we performed in together, and that we weren't connecting that deeply any more. She also said that a serious boyfriend just wasn't what she needed right now, and that she really cared about me, but she thought we should take a break. She said she wasn't going after other guys any time soon, but she said she still really wanted to be friends because we had got to know each other very well. Like I said, this was almost three weeks ago. Since then I've gone through just about every human emotion possible, from shock, to extreme sadness, to anger and resentment. I tried getting over her, but she was just so special to me, and I have never met another girl quite like her. I felt like we really had something, a kind of special connection that I hadn't felt with past exes. Anyways, she ignored me almost entirely for the first two weeks, and I did the same, mainly because I simply couldn't look at her without remembering just how much I loved and cared about her, and how those feelings were no longer mutual. She started smiling at me just the other day though, and I returned it, so I feel like we're back on a somewhat friendly level, no conversations yet. Friends of hers have told me she's not mad at me or anything, and that she doesn't really know what to feel, just like me. Right now I'm wondering whether or not I should call her (we exchanged 2-3 texts three days after the breakup, but we've been in "no contact" since then) or if she'll call me, as well as how I should act around her if I'm trying to get her back without being clingy, desperate, or obvious. Above all, I would really like to know whether or not she misses me/wants me back? Anyone have any advice? If you're a girl and could possibly shed some light on how my ex may be feeling, it would be very helpful. Thank you so much!

• Answer:

  This is a department in which I may be of service. No matter what a girl says, she will always remember stuff from the relationship, little conversations, specific things you've said that made her either happy or sad, little moments exchanged. Now, remembering those things we find it very hard to get over guys we had strong feelings for. So, considering she said that she still really wants to be your friend, I would suggesting starting off with having a conversation with her, and think of an excuse to text her like you forgot what tonight's homework is. And, she will come around, she said that she felt like you two were becoming distant? Well, make it like it was, talk to her, get to know her more, and tell her about you. Believe it or not girls love that sort of thing, it instils a level of trust, and friendship and makes the girl feel special and like you two have a connection. Also, tell her stuff that you wouldn't tell anyone else say something like 'Wanna hear a secret? You can't tell anyone else!" That makes her feel special and like you trust her which is VERY important! I hope this helps!! Good Luck :) Remember: Don't give up quickly, give her a little time, she will come around :)