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Feeling sick, but I don't know what it's from?

Feeling lost in my life. Dont know what to do?

  • I got married to the person whom I loved sincerely for 4 years. We have gone through hell lot of problems. His parents didnt accept. But finally my parents took all responsibilities and got insulted a lot by his parents and finally his parents accepted for coming to the marriage out of no choice. His parents treated my parents like some slaves over the marriage and in reception. I was just like a spectator. I Couldnt tolerate that my parents has been insulted more than anything. So I have expressed my feelings to my husband in a fight. Though he loved me a lot before marriage, right now after marriage, his interactions with me has reduced a lot. He is speaking just like he is speaking with his friend. The bond is now sincerely missing. Its been 45 days since marriage, but every night he sleeps turning other side of the bed. I am feeling somehow more depressed. I married him even though when I see his parents mistreated my parents a lot. I have been like princess in my home. Right now, I am in a state, where I dont know language, dont know people but just my husband. But if he gets off, he is either sleeping or watching tv or doing some other work. I really lost feeling that I am a newly married person. What for I should live now? No caring words, no affectionate words like the way he spoke before marriage. Even though am speaking good with his parents hiding my feelings about how they mistreated my parents, my sister and me, Sometimes I cant just hide my anger about them to my husband. He stays silent. So he cancelled our honeymoon trip now, dont want to have some time with me... Friends, how does it feel when the person we love so much is either taking revenge on us or avoiding you even though the probability of mistake is more on their side? I am feeling lost. Hate to live this life.

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    Go and join in any Ashram.

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some times we dont realize our problems also Its good to consult a family counselor or psychologist Who will guide you the best All the best

Om

if u have loved : love honestly. the good days were there before and the bad days now. be commited to both these good days and the bad part as well. if u give up, u will belong to the long list of lovers, who can love like hell, but fail on the commitment part. also, live in 2 worlds: one with what u have in the inside, and one in which u act outside. also, there is no one in th world who would understand u, ur situations: it will be only u. not even the one u love. not even the parents. u r only one piece in this world and that what will happen to u or is happening to u is unique. accept this.

aradhana

do'nt think about leaving him,try to solve this by speak to him and give little bit chance to your relation.And say clearly to him that you leaved yours parents ,society because of a single person and that is he.

rajeev

If you feel no Love there probably is no Love and maybe it would be best to move on with YOUR life and leave that bickering family to bicker among themselves.If someone mean mouthed my parents I sure would not hang around..Good Luck and Happy Future to YOU..

cochise

Go with ur heart and gut its usually right

lily

gv some more time to ur relationship n love u both had.

viyu

He may be facing a lot of pressure from his parents and also from ur side .........so u also don't fite with him.............speak to him with love and ask what happened................f his love to u was true he will definitely open up ..see now u should make him understand tat u r there for him and u can share wth me any problems....and one more thing if he wldnt have loved u he wldnt have married u with such great difficulty....i hope he will become like before...............all the best for ur life.

Fredo

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