How do tourists get cheated?

How do I get out of this cheated on feeling that is taking its toll on me?

• I discovered that I hae been cheated on. There was a friend of mine who told me that the girl I was in relationship with, is dating some other guy too. I was shattered on this account of infidelity on her behalf. I was angry and I called her up and asked her why she cheated on me. To this, she started abusing me that I put trails behind her and I don't trust her and she snapped the phone. I wailed all night leave alone crying. I am feeling like doing something wrong to me. I am hating myself more than I am hating her right now. i want to come out of it. I want to let myself believe that she was not a good girl and whatever happened was not my fault. I used to cry and she was dating some other guy. this mere thought is making me cry again and again. yeah, I am a guy and I am not supposed to cry. but even I have feelings and thinking of all the plans that we had( or rather I had) is making me cry again and again. Some part in me tells me to stop my life right where it is and mourn her till tears run dry. Some part tells me that I should move on. I l know if by any miracle she comes back tome, I will not be able to trust her anymore. 2 months, she was dating some other guy and I was feeling so love d with her. O God. I loved her more than myself. I n i am feeling like a loser right now. I don't have any feelings of redemption by taking revenge of any sort with her. I love her too much to do anything stupid like that. I can't hold myself and it seems that I will fall apart. Every now and then I burst into tears and I am feeling so pathetic. I am feeling my life is at total loss right now. We had a mutual understanding that w will never ever cheat upon. even if some one feels the urge to go, it should be done properly. I don't understand why she cheated on me? And why was she abusing me when I discovered that she was cheating on me by telling me that I have left trails behind her? I can't do anything right now. I have my exams in two months and I don't want to make her the reason to spoil my exams by whining and crying about that she cheated me and I was so broken ( that is exactly I am feeling right now) that i spoiled my exams. I feel that if this time I will give up crying , I will regret it all my life because this exam is very important to me. I dint had the courage but after taking two pints of beer, I deleted every photograph of her and when I regained my senses, I started crying all over again for I had no photograph of her to look at. What is happening to me? M i turning mad? I am expected to be mature but I can't. I have Had bad times in my life, but this time, I feel completely shattered. I a FEELING like I have been broken into million pieces and I will never be able to be myself again since the most crucial piece of me (she ) wil be missing from me. I don't know what to do. I felt so alive with her around. Why did God made this love ? It hurts so bad. right now I am feeling to just jot down every word of the dictionary so that time passes and I wish it takes eternity to do so, so that I don't have time to think about that. even when I am thinking that I will not think about her, I am thinking about her. I am feeling so like a looser. WHy do people cheat? Why can't they just confront and accept the fact that they are not happy nemore ? maybe that way I could have worked out something that wasn't right. It is a terrible feeling to know that some one you love is happy with some one other. She told me to get some other gurl for myself. I kept on crying that I don't need anybody else. I need you. And she snapped the phone like I am some prank call or a wrong number. I don't know what I am writing about or what I am saying right now.

• Answer:

  Generally boys cheats the girl but in your case the girl cheated you means you are not a boy,you know what you are.