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Runaway from home for the weekende for a good reason help and advice needed please?

  • Im 13 and am exceptionally unhappy with my home/mother because she won't see the truth and bullies me into accepting her falsified version of events, threatens to and does slap me for sparking to her in a nasty tone of voice or looking at her the wrong way despite the fact she has started doing that long before me just for asking for a reason or disagreeing with her, during a particularly bad altercation I hade a cup of coffee (lukewarm fortunately) And very nearly sent to live with my farther which is not a suitable state of life either a day or so ago she threatened to "beat the crap out of" me if I looked at her the wrong way again . I cant live this way for much longer but can't have a conversation about my un-happiness with her either son I have written a not explaining everything and explaining I have everything necessary and a plan and 2 backup plans and that I will text her every couple of hours and told her we need an external mediator for the following discussion. I decided to leave for the weekend A because she can be the kindest most supporting mother I know B so not to upset my younger sister but I will make plans to live elsewhere if necessary. If anyone has other ideas please post but mostly I want advice on what to add to my plan/kit list PLAN sneak out and leave the note behind walk to the bus stop a fair distance from home catch bus to n___e(blanked out for peace of mind) ring my friend who lives there and arrange to meet him and find a suitable camp spot using his knowledge and text mum arrive at bus stop and meet friend/find camp spot/buy food, construct shelter in friends den/hidey hole/other less know less visible place he knows, cook lunch meet friend , dinner, set early warning system (tin cans/tripwire etc, sleep , breakfast meat friend/read repeat unti end of weekend return home. KIT LISTmultitools Knife/fork/spoon sets Bowls Hexi stove and spare fuel blocks + lighter Map just in case Bed roll Sleeping bag Blanket Foil shelter/tent Phone

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    I don't think you should run away. The external mediator is a great idea. It has to be someone neutral. Perhaps the counselor at school or someone from your church if your family attends church. Nothing is ever as hopeless and unsolvable as it can seem.

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Bad idea she's going to kill you when you get back go to a youth shelter or move in with family

cute :-) ur just 13 and staying away from home for what ever reason is quite tricky and dangerous. Try to resolve it with your mother. I'm 26, I've had had fights at home for so many years, crazy ones. Maybe if you were a lil older you could have taken a decision to get out of your house but now its quite dangerous. You don't know me so maybe you won't listen, but just be careful. Everyone has bad times but its what makes you stronger.

Mrinal

Please don't run away, it is not safe for a young child like you. Tell someone and get help immediately! Your mum is a psycho and she is NOT fit to be a parent. Please get help asap!!

LemonZest

I would phone childline or go to a grandparents house or someone who you know cares for you unconditionally - they will take care of you and get you out. No one deserves to be treated like that so do what you feel is appropriate as it is YOUR life - not HERS! Good luck

iola

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