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  • Okay, I'm 14, and I have liked this girl for 3 years, and it's been a rough three years. I've watched other guys hurt her and break her heart, I don't want to see her get hurt anymore. I danced with her a couple of times at our last school dance. She means everything to me, but she doesn't care. My friend got the idea that I should send her a message telling her I liked her and why I liked her, and at first I didn't do it, but I eventually gave in because my friend got her to like him, so I trusted him. Well, she thought my message was really creepy. That was a couple of weeks ago. I've been depressed ever since she said my message was creepy and she didn't like it. If I could unsend that message. I deffinately would. I'm pretty sure I don't have a chance with her anymore. I'm just sort of hoping she can find someone who would treat her the same or better than I would. I don't understand how any of her boyfriends could break up with her. They have no idea how lucky they were. Over the 3 years, I've Been in and out of deep sadness. We became friends this year, which made me pretty happy. I was so filled with joy when I danced with her. But I'll probably never be able to have my arms around her again. All that's running through my mind is, she hates me, she thinks I'm a creep, she doesn't care about me, I would give up anything for her, would she still call me a creep if she experienced this? I've been tearing up in bed almost every night now, even though I am pretty much made to be a Marine. But I guess when I think about it, I wouldn't want to date me either. I want to be an officer in the Marines with NROTC, and I'm sure she doesn't want to be with someone who will just leave for a year at a time. I'm going to be gone at training this summer for field ops. So that's another reason. I just don't know why she can't just have a little sympathy. And yes, I've tried letting her go many times, but I just can't. I feel like I need to protect her from getting hurt anymore even if she doesn't like me.

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Maybe you are creepy trying not to be an a** but when I was 14 ,I kinda was too... it just seems like you were total head over heel about her before you were even friends and didn't even know her and not just the "her," you see at school or where ever. Not sure if that's true or not just going off what I read. Just don't focus on her that's bad kinda forget about her stay away for awhile @hen gradually start talking to her. I'm an expert at this since elementary I know how to manipulate people very well. Here's something that might help compasion isn't in fashion. Some girls might take it as being emo and the way you decribed her (likely still young around ur age, I'm assuming, and already have had more then one bf ) fits. Give it some time. Before you talk and I mean very small talk not even a full conversation. This might seem weird but I know people all too well most girls seem to follow the compasion isnt in fasion i dnt know y just dnt show too much untill ur in a rationship already and not right off the bat.

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