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If someone says a GUY looks like a GIRL, do you find it insulting?

  • We're all K-Pop crazy.. but I get really annoyed with my friend (I don't even know whether I hate her or not...) because from my point of view, she only likes them for their LOOKS and ATTRACTIVENESS and APPEARANCE.. so yeah, basically the looks. Annoying right!! ): How can she even call herself a "big fan" of SHINee. Only says "Key is so hot la..", "Taemin is so cute la...", "omg Jonghyun's abs are so nice" (We're from Malaysia so yeah.. 'la' is in our vocab.. whatever it means xD). She doesn't even comment on their music (This goes same to every other group she "likes")!! Their singers, not models! I mean I'm not saying that you can't comment on their looks, but at least comment on their music too right. Get what I mean? Anyway, I'm getting out of question. She said that Taemin looks like a girl, and one guy from NUEST looks like a girl.. I don't know about you guys, but for me I really find it insulting .. Not because Taemin is in SHINee and I love SHINee, but it's really my point of view. I mean just imagine you're a guy(if you're a girl), and someone says you look like a girl when you're a GUY.. not a GIRL.. That'll hurt your feelings right? And what's worse is that she didn't even think that saying guys look like girls is insulting. Here's one of our chats.. Me : dafuq!! You said Taemin looks like a girl.. then said that guy from NUEST looks like a girl but when Key ACTS like a girl(when he's drunk haha) you say it's cute..? SENSELESS -.-" Her : it's not senseless la!! You just don't understand what im trying to say Me : yeah, you're right.. it's not senseless. It's filled with mean sense. so mean la you insult the idols you like.. who does that la?? haahaha xD [I only put the "haahaha xD" so I can like cover up that I'm actually meaning it] Her : It's not insulting also la... what about you then.. you also insult Kai what.. Taemin is gonna hate you for insulting his best friend!! Me : saying that he was dancing with a jacket isn't insulting also -.-" and if you THINK it is insulting, it ISN'T la xD that's called making fun! at least I didn't say 'he's so stupid dance with a jacket and not with a girl' right? That is an insult laa :P [ he did dance with a jacket in one of his EXO-K teasers] Her : Lol what? xD I say I like mahhhh They ownself go act like girl de xD [she means she say it because she wants to say it. and they as in Taemin and the guy from NUEST] Me : Do you even know the meaning of insulting? x_______________x Her : You dunno right? That's why keep saying I insulting cause dunno whats insulting Me : saying a guy looks like a girl is insulting.. just imagine if you were a guy and someone said you look like a girl, you'll think "that person is so mean" right.. Her : Haha xD he act like girl then I say girl lah xD -- then another friend (yeah this was a group chat.) suddenly came and said "I feel like eating ramyun im so hungry!!" and I just ignored what my friend said and changed the topic to food by replying the friend that just popped up lol-- And seriously.. I don't get her at all!! "You don't know the meaning of insulting right? That's why you keep saying I'm insulting them cause you don't know what's insulting" What the actually f**k. If you had a friend who said these stuff, what would you do?!

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    There IS a term that goes by the name of "androgyny." Androgyny = a person has the characteristics of both female and male. Their gender is often questioned. Not insulting, but flattering imo. Androgyny is beautiful.

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Sorry i'm not going to read all that i noticed you mentioned something about NU'EST so i assume from you're question you were talking about ren yes he does look like a girl but in a cute/sweet way so most of the time it depends on the guy ren is cute :D i read somewhere that he was mistaken for a girl while he was in a public bathroom before he cut his hair it was long and blonde just like in the teaser XD tho i rather date a guy that looks like this > http://images5.fanpop.com/image/photos/30000000/Ren-nuest-30052373-500-333.jpg over any one of these guys > http://www.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article780088.ece/ALTERNATES/s615/SUIT+JACKET+AND+RED-NAVY+ONE+DIRECTION.jpg

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Well I'm a girl and people always think I'm a guy. I don't find it insulting, I think it's funny. Though I guess guys are sensitive about being masculine... o-o If she was speaking her opinion, I don't think it really matters if they weren't trying to hurt anybody.

Christina

'Well, if people says a girl looks like a guy, it's not insulting.' It IS insulting to most girls. What you're basically saying is that people shouldn't say that some boys look like girls because you'll be insulting them, however, it's okay if you say that a girl looks like a boy. Excuse me, but I wouldn't like it if someone said that I looked like a boy. :| It's the same for boys though. Some don't mind that, but some others do. Still, your argument is stupid.

Azz. xx

Me and My brother look the same. But the difference, well, he's a guy and I'm a girl. I don't think it's insulting; actually I find it kinda flattering. My brother doesn't mind, it's actually pretty funny when people say he looks better than most girls if he had long hair. While, me, I used to have short hair and often mistaken for a guy. I've been told countless times that I looked better than most guys, to the point where I got confessions from girls I didn't know. I don't see anything wrong, I think that it's pretty attractive to be androgynous.

Yeah it annoys me too when people say that. Sometimes i wonder if the idols are okay with it even tho they seem like they are. As for Ren, am i the only one who thinks he DOESN'T look like a girl? I mean, to me, he just looks like a very pretty boy.

PLEDIS PlayGirlz

Lol! Yeah, I would. But I come from a different country, where our society tries to clearly stress the difference between masculinity and feminism. Kind of like black and white. Not gray and silver

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