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Is it normal for me to feel this way?

Is it normal to feel this way?

  • I have been feeling down for the past few weeks after my bf ended our relationship of 4 yrs. I was looking for a job in his area and then was planning to sell house but with the economy not much has come up and things were taking longer than anticipated. He wanted to support me and quit my job but I couldn’t agree to that as we are not engaged/married. So he got fed up and frustrated and ended our relationship telling me that I never planned to move there as my job is too important. I am 32 and feel so lost and cant stop thinking about him as I wanted us to have a good future. The way I felt about him I have never felt about anyone and now I feel like I will never find anyone to share my life with. Its so hard to meet decent people these days and I just feel like giving up on dreaming of having someone to share my life with. Is it normal to feel this way??

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    You were smart wanting to be married first and the fact that he didn't do it and instead just dumped you speaks volumes about him and it's not as "pretty" as it is in your memories. Keep being extremely busy with your career, but use every opportunity to be "out there". Hopefully, a true love will find you. There is no expiration date on giving up...

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if he wanted more he should have married you

he is weak, he doesn't love you breaking up like that. Good job break up happen now not later

sorry, but this done happen to nearly all of us - we put our apples in one basket and hope that it works out only to find life doesn't always pan out the way we would have liked i guess as you are in your 30's and having been with this guy for a while it all seems a bit scary to start all over again - all i can say is i hope you havent left your friends behind and get back into a social circle once more - enjoy the time and it will work out

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