How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back?

How to get my ex-girlfriend back?

• We have been together for a little over two years and we love each other very much. Its just that for the past couple of months, ever since i started school while working too, I have been neglecting her and she said that she felt lonely. Every time we fought during these times, i would just break up with her because of the heat of the moment. We have been broken up for almost 4 weeks now and I have been trying to get her back since day 1, but she gets mad every time i brought up our relationship. I told her about how i learned my lesson and that I just need one final chance to prove it to her. Every time i asked her to take me back she gets much more irritated, which resulted in her saying that she wants me to move on, she doesn't love me anymore, and she just wants to be friends. Even though she says those hurtful words, I believe that deep inside she still loves me because she kept all my gifts I gave to her and still has our pictures hanging in her bedroom wall. She is my first love and i want to keep it my last. She has been hanging out with this guy ever since we broke up and I keep thinking if she is moving on to him. I feel that she is interested in him. She even gave her phone number to her ex before me. I know for a fact that her ex still wants her back. Well anyways......My male friends keep saying that ignoring her is the best way to get her back because it would stir up her curiosity about me and give her space to think. My female friends say to just be her friend and always be there for her would be the best way to win her back. The flaw for ignoring her is that she will just hangout with the guy or ex more often and the flaw for being her friend is that we might end up as permanent friends and start seeing me as a friend only. Please give me your opinions based on your experiences. Don't be afraid to be harsh. Thank you!

• Answer:

  The first thing you need to do is give your partner space. All you probably want to do is pick up the phone and call your ex. Or you might be tempted to text. Doing either thing is a perfectly good way to make thigs worse for yourself. Many times your partner will begin to realize how much you actually meant to them after they had some time to think about what they are missing. Allow yourself to recover emotionally. If you want to learn how to get her back you need to take the time to become emotionally controlled and calmed down. Women dislike me who are desperate, clingy or needy, so pull your life together and get over those feelings long before you consider trying to draw her back in to your life. Behave as if nothing is bothering you. In other words if you want to learn how to get her back, you need to play it cool. She is not going to want to take you back if you are feeling and behaving depressed. You need to make sure that you are behaving as if you are having a good time, overcoming the break up depression to let her know that everything is okay.