IM AT WITS END WITH HIM!!! HE WILL NOT tell me what he wants!!! IVE TRIED!! What do i do?! He plays dumb!!?
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We do everything together, eat all our meals together, hang out with eachother's friends together. He drops everything he is doing just for me, and he voluntarily does it and instists. He also helps me with errands and literally comes with me everywhere i have to go. If im sick, he wants to take care of me too. We go out to eat just us, but pay separately (which is fine, i prefer that). We Have our "alone time" everynight and cuddle on the couch and watch a movie and he massages my feet or rubs my back or i just fall asleep sitting on his lap...lol... Everynight after a few hours of cuddling and spooning, we make out very very passionately and intensely for a few hours. I tell him i have feelings and he says "me too". Then i fall asleep in his arms. At like 6 or 7 am, i head back to my dorm so i can get some sleep in my bed, and he can sleep in his bed. (but sometimes he sleeps in my bed with me til the morning) Later in the morning at like 11 or 11 30 when he gets up out of his bed, he texts me when im on the way to class "good morning :)" and i go "hey you :)" and he goes "u sleep ok?" He also has his arm around my waist in public, like if we are sitting down or something. And like if we are playing the sims on his computer and his roommate is in the room, we dont kiss obviously, but he has his arms wrapped around me and buries his head in my neck. He treats no other girl like this. He doesnt hang with a girl unless im there with him and its my friend. He wants to spend so much time w/me, he barely hangs with his guy friends alone, cuz he wants me to come too...lol... Neither us havent dated before. Does he think of me as his gf? The other day i was like as we cuddled "what are we? I feel like we are a questiom mark" and he goes "we dont have to be" in an uprising tone. He hasnt asked me out yet. I try to hint at it, but he plays dumb. Last night he wanted to see me at 10 30 at night. He invites himself over. This was after not seeing or texting me all day. When he comes into my room, he sits on the other side of the roomin a chair while im on my bed an he pays attention to the tv and not me. Its like im not there. Then when he does get in bed, i lay facing him, burying my head in his chest, and he says rudely "wrong way bud" A few hours later he makes out with me and we both relax. i ask what we were and he goes "well, do u have feelings for me?"(DUH!!! I said it 2 times before to him!) and he goes "me too" i said "so..." and he said "soo...when two people have feelings for eachother...can you picture us as a couple?" i say "yeah can you?" and he says "sure...." so we kiss passionately laying down and he looks deeply into my eyes and strokes my face. He pecks my cheeks over and over again softly and slowly and buries his head under my chest and just lays there with his eyes closed and arms wrapped around me. We spoon for like an hour, but he weirdly says "its too hot in here, im gonna go back to my dorm" and leaves...at like 4am. I thought he would stay and sleep w/me but w/e... Then today i dont hear from him period. I saw him in the hall near the elevator and he's like "hi!" but thats it...and im like "hi" and we both continue walking. He texted me saying "i mighhht not be able to hang tonight cuz it sports night w/the guys" so i say fine. But then he messages me a few min ago saying "heyo". He talks just like we are friends. He's like "i went for a run today" etc... Wtf. Im so sick of this..... Why cant he acknowledge we are together? When people ask if we are dating, he says nothing... HE LIVES ACROSS THE ******* HALL TOO! Why is this so hard?! He wont tell me anything about how he feels. Its so frustrating!! the past few days its like he's acting strange I told him im getting mixed messages from him. Hes like "mixed messages? Huh?!" hes like "i dont mean too... Is it cuz i hang with the guys and not u all the time?" he's not getting it! I told him this is too awk if he's not telling me how he feels. He's like "i do have feelings for youuuu. I told u that yesterday" hes still not getting it...! He has weird arousal too. He kisses me when im practically asleep at 3am. He doesnt kiss me at normal times when im really horny. So idk if hes even truly into me
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Answer:
sweetie just ignore him
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