How do you know if he's the one?

I know hes the one. but i need help?

• Im 20 yrs old. he is 24. we arent officially together yet. we have been dating with our parents consent. the thing is he works at a fast food restaurant and he has to provide for his family wen his dad often gets beat drunk. I dont have a job. i prepared to be a pharmacy technician and have searched for work ardently. he tried going back to college but his work schedule doesnt let him. the problem is my dad is growing impatient. hes scared hes only playing with my feelings. he wants our relationship to b more official. but in our religion that means soon marriage. which we do want. my dadS afraid we will sleep together before marriage and that if i get married my "bf" wont be able to support me. i love him. but i need advice?

• Answer:

  Why don't you ask him to be your boyfriend?? If you two are that serious it wouldn't hurt. And you don't have to have sex just because he's a boyfriend. You're also old enough to do as you please and you don't need your parents consent. If you truly love this guy, nobody will tell you different because it's your life, not theirs. And what you do with your body is up to you, if you want to have sex with him, that's ok. God isn't going to hate you for it. I'm just saying everything happens for a reason. Just follow your instincts and everything will turn out fine.