Can someone explain slingbox to me?

Can someone explain why it is expectable for a father to pick and choose to see his child?

• Hi, Can someone explain why father's think they can produce babies, and think it ok to come whenever they feel like to your house and what ever day or time or not show up at all to collect their child. But expect the mother to sit around all day like she ain't go things to do and put up with this. As well as not paying child support and leaving the mother to be the sole provider doing a full time job to provide for her child. But thinks they can blame you for being awkward and no doing what they want you to do even though you have been fair and made arrangements to suit them but can't be bothered. Then makes out your the one who is awkward and selfish because you are not putting up with this any more. Pisses me off when father think they can control the situation and by going court he can get what he wants for visitation. Yeah fathers have the rights to be in the child's life but shouldn't take the f***king piss about it and stop making up excuses to not do their responsibilities for their child. Can someone explain...

• Answer:

  Smart parents go to court and get an order of custody and visitation so this sort of anger and resentment doesn't happen