Are girls in the PNW different from girls in the south?

Different Types of Girls: Read post and tell me what you think?

• Obviously most people know that there are different types of girls. My post is not to try and attempt to categorize all types of girls. I know that not everyone fits into a box and I realize and I am not trying to list all different types of girls. Okay, here is what I have noticed about girls. Generally speaking, I would say that the majority of girls who say act girly girl, or girls who are superficial and shallow and wear tons of makeup, and girls who sometimes are very pretty, pretty, or cute GENERALLY SPEAKING DO NOT ESTABLISH FRIENDSHIPS WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX UNLESS (1) THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO THE GUY OR IF (2) IF BOTH OF SEXES GREW UP WITH EACH OTHER EVER SINCE THEY WERE CHILDREN. (3) Or if the girl feels sorry for the guy and becomes a friend with the guy. (4) Or if one or more of the girl's friends suggests, asks, or tells the girl to try and be friends with a guy. SO MY POINT, IS GENERALLY SPEAKING I DO NOT SEE SUPERFICIAL GIRLS OR GIRLS WHO WEAR LOTS OF MAKEUP AND LIKE TO GOSSIP AND GIGGLE OR JUST REALLY GOOD LOOKING GIRLS MAKE FRIENDS WITH GUYS OTHER THAN THE ABOVE MENTIONED. Another words, I WOULD PERSONALLY LIKE A GIRL TO BE FRIENDS WITH ME BASED ON MY PERSONALITY AND NOT MY LOOKS AND NOT BECAUSE THEY FEEL SORRY FOR ME AND NOT BECAUSE ONE OF THEIR FRIENDS ASKED OR TOLD THEM TO BE FRIENDS WITH ME. Honestly, i dont care too much if the person's personality is different than mine. What i really care about is, WOULD THAT PERSON BE WILLING TO BE FRIENDS WITH ME AND NOT BECAUSE THEY FEEL SORRY FOR ME OR BECAUSE SOMEONE TOLD THEM TO BE MY FRIEND. THE GIRLY GIRLY TYPES GENERALLY ONLY HANG OUT WITH GUYS BECAUSE THEY ARE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO THEM, ANOTHER WORDS THEY LIKE HOW THE GUY LOOKS. (EITHER FACE OR BODY OR BOTH) SO PEOPLE TEND TO ASK ME WHY DONT I LIKE THIS PRETTY/CUTE GIRL. WELL, THEY DONT UNDERSTAND, THEY TAKE IT THE WRONG WAY. THEY THINK THAT I DONT LIKE THE GIRL OR THAT IM GAY OR SOMETHING STRANGE ABOUT ME WHY I DONT LIKE PRETTY/CUTE GIRLS. iTS JUST THAT because i DO NOT LOOK good enough THEY DONT WANT TO BE MY FRIEND. SO MY POINT IS SUPERFICIAL GIRLS OR GIRLY GIRLS OR GOSSIP GIRLS ONLY CHOOSE TO BE FRIENDS WITH GUYS ONLY BECAUSE THEY LOOK GOOD. SO THAT IS WHY I AM TRYING TO LOOK FOR A GIRL WHO IS NOT GIRLY GIRL IN ANY WAY, AND LOOKS SORT OF NATURAL AND DOESNT WEAR THAT MUCH MAKEUP. ALSO, THE OTHER REASON WHY I DO NOT TRY TO DATE THOSE GIRLY GIRLS IS BECAUSE WHEN I AM WITH THEM, THEY MAKE ME FEEL LIKE IM NOT GOOD ENOUGH. SOME GIRLS WILL POINT AT ME AND LAUGH, BUT WHEN THEY DO THEY QUICKLY MOVE AND PASS BY ME. THIS DOESNT HAPPEN ALL THE TIME BUT IT HAPPENS NEVER THE LESS. SO IT IS HARD TO FIND GIRLS WHO WOULD BE WILLING TO HANG OUT WITH A GUY OR BE FRIENDS WITH HIM. NOW BY FRIENDS I DONT NECESSARILY MEAN FRIENDS, THEY COULD BE JUST PEOPLE THAT WOULD BE WILLING TO TALK TO ME AND HANG OUT WITH MAYBE LIKE ONCE OR TWICE A MONTH. fOR EXAMPLE, GO TO THE MALL, THEATER, OR MAYBE A GIRL I COULD SKATEBOARD OR PLAY TENNIS WITH. I HAVE A VERY DIFFICULT TIME PICTURING SOME OF THE GIRLS AT MY COLLEGE ON A SKATEBOARD OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT. aLSO, NOT MANY GIRLS TAKE UP SPORTS. THAT IS WHY I WOULD LIKE TO MEET GIRLS WHO LIKE TO PLAY SPORTS. bUT THERE IS JUS ONE PROBLEM WITH THAT. i am not that good in sports. And I NEVER WANT TO MEET A GIRL WHO IS OR WAS ON A SPORTS TEAM AND PLAY THE SAME SPORT AS HER. bECAUSE ITS EMBARASSING I MIGHT LOSE A TO THE GIRL. bUT YOU KNOW HOW THERE ARE ALOT OF GIRLS WHO LIKE TO SAY PLAY TENNIS, AND THEY ARE NOT ON OR WERE NOT ON A SPORTS TEAM, I WOULD WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH A PERSON LIKE THAT. fOR example there is this nice girl i met in college class, she is cute and pretty. i play soccer but not on a team or anything like that. in fact i suck big time. So, i would never try to connect with her by playing soccer, but i would play soccer play tennis or do anything like that if the GIRL IS NOT THAT GOOD IN THAT SPORT OR ON A COLLEGE SPORTS TEAM or use to be on a high school sports team. My question is, Do ANY OF YOU FIND IT HARD TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH CERTAIN TYPES OF GIRLS. IF SO WHO. also girls can respond to tell me what you think.

• Answer:

  Okay so firstly, please don't type in CAPS. They are reallyyy hard to read :P Anyway, let me tell you something in my perspective as a girl alright? I have my own tight knit of friends. Almost all of my closest girl friends are the girly type and desirable. I have no idea why they want to be friends with me too. There's this school celebration thing that we have to wear formal clothes so for girls its dresses, high heels and all that ****. Well me having nothing of that sort, wore a T-shirt, jeans and awesome Converse sneakers. So in the end, i was left standing there beside my friends who were dressed to the nines like a fag people probably think i am. Then i looked around and realised that even the 'losers' are nicely dressed too Adhara. Then when we're hanging out, we would be 'gossiping'. Not much to talk about really. I would rather have friends that like watching soccer (can't believe Chelsea won wtf), awesome rock/metal bands and stuff i enjoy. Another time, this guy walked up to my friend and asked for her number lol. Time for me to be an invisible ninja again. Oh and when they talk about guys, obviously looks means alot to them which i would be awkwardly nodding along. Cuz hey, who am i to judge other's looks when i don't even look good myself? So overall, i guess my girly friends are probably the nice and not really conceited ones which i'm kinda lucky to have? Hard to find things in common though. As for guys, I'm the one that's always friendzoned. Obviously. Yup, that's all. Just so you know, this is not a sob story, i just wanna show you about different girls' perspectives.