How do I stop over analyzing everything?

How can I stop feeling nervous/foolish in front of the guy I like?

  • I always find myself analyzing everything I say after I talk to the guy I like and I wind up feeling so stupid!! How can I stop beating myself up about every mistake????

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    What I do (& it actually works most of the time), is pretend that he's just some guy, a guy I don't like or care about. It then becomes easy to talk to him. After a while, you don't have to pretend anymore as you get to know him more.

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you can't. this is love, hon, and it doesen't just stop until he asks you out, and you've dated for an impossibly long time.

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