Relationships: Will he ever contact me again?
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I'm going to try and make this as short as I can. I started to date a man last year in July 2011. We met on a dating site. He lives up north but spends part of his time down here where I live because he has two young children. When he comes here he stays with his parents and I realize he comes here to spend time with his children. Thats the purpose of the trip. Anyway, things were going pretty well and I also had made a trip once in early Fall to where he lives and spent a few days at his home. I had a great time! So a few weeks later I receive a pic thru my phone (we send pics to each other) of a golfing tournament he is in down here with his dad and somehow the pic he sent me showed numerous numbers of other people he sent it to! Being the curious person I am and noticing two area codes that are within my state I start to wonder who these people are, so I call them and sure enough one is a female! I confronted him and he became aggitated and said that was a friend from school and then proceeded to accuse me of harrassing his friends! I didn't and I only called and left no message. Like a wrong number calling. So I pushed it aside and planted the thought in the back of my mind and tried to forget about it and give him the benefit of the doubt. So were now into November 2011 and I'm still exclusively seeing him but I have my doubts about him being "exclusive" with me, the reason I say this is that I keep seeing him on the dating site we met on and notcing he is still active, meaning he has logged on recently. I start to confront him about this and he accuses me of being on there all the time when infact I'm on there checking/stalking to see if he has been on there! So, I decided to hide my profile so that he can see that I'm searching or waiting for someone to contact me. He does the same. Now fast forward December 2011. I didnt see him for 4 weeks he had a busy schedule with his small business and was unable to comedown until the 1st week of December. I picked him up at the airport and we had dinner and a great evening together and then we parted ways the next day. He was here for only 5 days and his one daughter had a Bday. That was the purpose of the trip besides not seeing his children for 4 weeks. Before I go on I have to add we Instant message on our phones alot (more so me!) and talk on the phone when he is not here, so there is communication during times he isnt here. Now a few days before Xmas. Sorry so long but alot here and I'm not saying everything! I picked him up at the airport and again we go to dinner and spend the evening together that night. I drop him off at his familys house the next day. I bought gifts for his children and parents and he reimbursed me. I offered to help him since he was to busy.. I bought him some xmas gifts but mailed them upnorth a few weeks earlier. He said I didnt have to do that and I told him I wanted to.. He says he is bad at buying gifts for people and I just kindof shrug it off! Now its xmas day!! I get the Merrry xmas IM on my phone and later he asks me to meet him in the evening. I drive out to meet him and obviously we have sex.. He says he forgot my gift and i say dont worry next time. The next day I said him a text message basically saying how I feel about him and wanting to know where things are going in the relationship.. Its been 5.5 months. He replys back in a as nice as can be text. "Even though we get along great now M***y and we have a great time I have to be honest and tell you that I'm looking for someone to have two more children with and I just dont see that with you. Please forget about me now and you wont hurt anymore". I turned 40 in August and he turned 40 in the beginning of the year.. He basically said i was to old.. So I went semi crazy and he blocked me on his phone..Fast forward Feb 2012 he makes contact with me and we begin talking again and by March hanging out again and having sex.. I've been alittle overly zealous in which I call him alot and text him alot..He tells me I need to stop with all the text and calls because its too much..now the present May 2012 He called/text me and basically invited himself over. We hung out and had sex. I then went to work.. Two days later I send him a text "Good Morning"! he says to me "hope all is well with you!" and I need to tell you I'm dating a girl... WTF?? He like now ignores me but he has a tendency to text me after either a few days if i dont bother him or call.. Why does he do this to me? I like him so much and I care about him..Im not contacting him but we do play a game app on the phones that keeps us in contact..We just dont speak but instead play this game..its like a life line for me to him. I have that simple simpleton contact with him.. I dont understand why he had sex with me one day and two days later say he has a girlfriend.. Were adults not kids.. What do I do to make him see I'm serious and possibl
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Answer:
Why would you want him to contact you again? Its obvious he doesnt really care about you or atleast not half as much as you do, He is just using you when its convenient for him and not giving a damn the rest of the time, Move on and find somebody that is completely dedicated to you and serious, You'll find somebody that can love you sooo much more than that
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