Why do I always dream about my boyfriend leaving me?

Why do I dream my boyfriend is leaving?

• My boyfriend is in the military and I can understand why I have dreams of missing him but the past few nights were different. One dream I kissed him and could feel his lips, but he pulled away and started to disappear and I woke up trying to pull him back to me. Another night I dreamt one of my best friends was throwing a party and told me to bring my boyfriend and I just stood in her kitchen hugging a WWII army coat-we both love Germany and he loves the 40's along with collecting military items from all era's. Last night I dreamt I hugged him, I could feel his skin and smell him so vividly. I freaked out because I thought it was real and he was confused so I brushed it off and just hugged him as tight as I could. We sat on a couch and fell asleep on him. He waited till I woke up, we chatted, then like under a spell he slowly got up and left me without explanation or saying good bye. I woke up briefly and then fell into a dream where my little sister was driving him and I to my house from getting him at the airport. I sat up front with her, him in the back with his bags. We all laughter at a ghetto woman that tried to verbally fight with me. I didn't want to tell his mother I had gotten him yet because I wanted to keep him for myself for just a little bit. We ended up getting into traffic and I woke up before getting to have my time with him. Why in my dreams does he literally leave me or I can't spend time with him?

• Answer:

  it sounds as if you are fearful of loosing him and so your dreams are reflecting your fears. it also sounds as if you have some control issues and want to be in control of something you cannot have control over, which may be the thing your dreams are trying to show you.