How to get my boyfriend to realize his friend is trying to get between us?!?
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Me and my boyfriend have been together a year next month. Both of us are 18 but his bestfriend is 15..they have known each other since they were little. Ever since we began dating his friend has been jealous and keeps trying to get between me ans my boyfriend. My boyfriend changes his attitude when he is around him and we end up arguing and things get bad. He even called my boyfriend one night and said that he just for through having sex with me and I was laying right beside my boyfriend! When my boyfriend called him back and asked him about it he said it was his sister and not him. And my boyfriend let it go. I really despise this kid and everytime I bring it up my boyfriend says that I have no right to talk about him because he hasn't done anything to me and other stuff. It hurts and I just feel like I come second to him and his friend is first. My parents and friends say to just leave it be if you give him enough rope he will end up hanging himself. But that's easier said than done..please help!
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Answer:
Tell him how you feel. The 15 yr old is probably jealous, he could be lonely? Or he might just want to be a pain. Your BF should understand how you feel and tell him to stop. If your BF doesn't realize this then you need to talk to him. If he just shows no care, then maybe there might be something to rethink about. (I hate to see relationships fall apart over stupid things). Hope all works out, good luck.
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well theyve known each other for a long time so yea tht most likely turns u into 2nd my suggestion is to set something so tht his friend could fall for and ur boyfriend sees wats going on.....point blank heart tht doesnt see doesnt believe.hope this helps goodluck: )
Nikky
best friends will most of the time come first, unless you have the whip. you should make him try moer. dont plan anything or text or call him first. let him know what being second feels like.
Alex
Who has he known longer?
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