How To Get The Guy You Like?

Hate being a nice guy, girls hate us. Jerks win in life and get the girls. How can I treat girls like garbage?

  • Before I start No i didnt get rejected, NOT TROLLING and Yes its kinda lengthy but WELL WORTH the read. Oh and dont give me the "be yourself" "A girl will love you for you" "A girl will see your niceness and want to be with you" "One day you will find your girl" because that is nothing but fantasy and a perfect world. Face it, women subconciously love the assholes and jerks. They drool over them and want to sleep with them. They chase and chase the jerk who doesn't care for them and actually abuses her at times and she still wants him. Yet the girls have the guts to then say "I just want a gentleman/nice guy to be with" and yet 100% of the time the girl has a nice guy in their life who loves her and when he asks her out she freaks and rejects him, what happens? She goes back to the jerk (or chases a new one) and has sex with him and he dumps her and the cycle repeats. Not all women are like this but over 95% of them are. Now women want the "nice guy" in their late twenties when she has lost all her beauty and the jerks don't want her anymore. She is all "used" by the jerks (By used I mean has had sex so many times you can fit a basketball in her snatch) and then the nice guy is all she can settle for. Is that when I come and save the day?.....yeah cool -_- For me Im 17 almost 18 and never had a girlfriend, never kissed, cuddled, grinded or even held a hand for christs sake. Im not funny, witty, muscular, i have a wierd voice. Basically I lack all sex appeal (Dispite being called "cute" by many girls). No girl has ever shown interest in me ever and to top it all off....IM SOCIALLY AWKWARD. Basically I can hope to be rejected until the age of 27 or over until all those girls "want a nice guy" Things don't change in college. And when I have my first kiss the girl probably will have kissed at least 5 guys before me, im nothing but a number. Face it, girls DONT want guys like me, they want guys who will abuse them and treat them bad. ALL GIRLS WILL DENY THEY WANT A JERK! In fact I know that girls who answer this will be like "I hate jerks, I love nice guys!" Yet you probably dream and get wet about that hot jerky guy at school. WHAT WOMEN WANT AND WHAT THEY ACTUALLY GO FOR ARE DIFFERENT. So how can I be a jerk? Drinking, smoking, hitting and insulting girls, beating the **** out of a guy, drugs( Im thinking of doing PCP or caps at the very least) Im being serious because Im done being the nice guy and I want to change myself.

  • Answer:

    Ignore the ***** with the long *** paragraph......look buddy I'm with you here...I'm not a bad looking guy hands down...The reason some girls chase me is because 1. I'm doing my own thing they want someone who has goals 2.some just want sex 3.they like me. Those are just some on top of my head. I don't get all the women I'm not one of those guys...... I like my alone time....I like space. They do too. They don't like clingy men......but they do like when you show emotions....I do it sometimes. Not all crazy though. I treat some like little girls because that's how they act sometimes. Please don't do drugs I don't know you but you'll end up bad.....I've had my run in with a lot of those,I've even been to prison....I'm only 20. One other reason is they want someone in life that has something going for themself. They want a guy that has control of his life. Look don't beat yourself up...I get rejected sometimes.....some women think once you write to them your trying to get some....I like making friends....they don't write back....I delete them, I have no problem kicking people out of my life that don't want me.....do i feel down no.....when i write to someone that i do want to meet and get to know and they reject me then o well theres other women in the world.....it gets to me for a little bit, some alot but ay o well its there choice as it is yours on how to react....you shouldn't feel down that's what I'm saying just talk to girls don't seem desperate jumping into sex and all that....talk to them that's it.. be their friend....if they want sex then theyll throw signs at you

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