How do I find people I deleted on MSN?

On MSN messenger, my friend is not on the list of people who have added me - blocked me or deleted his account?

• So my friend has two accounts. One he recently created for his closest friends (he only has 4 contacts in it, and I'm one), and his older one for everybody. He never signs in anymore anyway, we talk practically every day through text and phone , but hesays he doesn't sign in anymore now that he has a job and girlfriend, etc. I never see him online anyway, (well, rarely). My question is, when I go to the list of people who have added me to their contacts, only one of his accounts appears (his newer one for closer friends). His other screen name does not appear on that list. I've read that this means that that person has deleted you. Also, on the "allow and block" sections, if you right click on a name on the list of people that you have allowed, it might give you the option to "delete" the contact. With his new account for close friends, it does not give me the option to delete. With the old account, it does. I read also that if it DOES give you the option to delete, it means they've deleted you. So judging by these two factors, it seems he deleted me from his old account. However, he still has me on his newer account. However, he might have just deleted his older account and kept the new one. He still uses his old account occasionally, so if he did delete me, well...i'm extremely hurt. So, what I'm asking is, is it also a possibility that he just deleted his account (would this cause these things to happen?) Or did he straight up delete me? :( We're like brothers, he's my best friend and I'm his. But we've had a few ups and downs in out friendship lately....right now I'm torn up because of this...

• Answer:

  Yes, there is a possibility that he had deleted you. Sometimes, we cannot avoid this happening due to the fact that there are block and delete features in MSN. I think, the best way to do is to prank your friend about the issue. He might just accidentally delete you. Additionally, for detailed steps about knowing if someone deleted you, I found this article pretty useful: http://darktips.com/how-to-tell-if-you-have-been-blocked-or-deleted-on-msn/