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I looked through my boyfriend's emails and found out that his ex-girlfriend is sending him pictures?!?

  • I looked through his emails once before because I had this bad feeling...yes I know it was wrong and yes I told him I would never do it again. BUT I noticed he's been acting a little strange, especially with his phone, like being very private about it which he wasn't before. So, I asked him if he was still talking to his ex, he said no and I asked if she even tries to email him and he said, "No, she never emails me and she hasn't in over a year." I was still suspicious so I looked and I saw that she sends him pictures....I know there are more emails but he has deleted them but I can tell by the email that I saw because she was showing him her tan line from vacation...I don't know what to do. He lied to me. But I know if I tell him that I looked through his email he will be so mad and probably not talk to me...but what can I do? I need to tell him I can't just act like everything is okay when I know that his ex-girlfriend his still sending him pictures. Also, I started seeing my boyfriend when he was still with his ex but he told me it ended a lot earlier then when it really did. So, that's why I feel very insecure and do not like that he still talks to her. help!

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    i would tell him i know what he is up to and it needs to stop! if he says he wont stop or you catch him getting pics or messages from her again behind your back i would let him go.

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dump him

Sounds like you can't trust him. And if there's no trust, the relationship will not work. Let him go. There's a clear pattern here.

When his asleep get his phone and look through it see what's up

I need to be honest with you, and hopefully you will be honest with yourself. In doing so I hope that I do not come across as mean or judgemental. I am not. Its your life, do whatever you want. That being said, one thing stuck out to me in your story. You had a feeling something is going on. but honestly what did you expect to happen? You started dating a guy that is not mature enough to be able to end one relationship before he started one with you. Why would you expect him to act any differently with you? You are dating a cheater, a liar, and someone that is hiding stuff from you. With a supposed ex. Not only is his ex sending him intimate pictures. He is keeping them. He is also hiding the emails from you. Do you honestly see a future for this relationship. Does someone that really loves you act like that? If there are no consequences for his actions, do you think he will ever change? I know this sounds harsh. it is harsh. I would love to help you more if you want. This is not your fault at all. You deserve to be with someone that loves you, and is mature enough to understand what love is. If you would like further advice or just need to vent. Please feel free to email me at [email protected] Good luck

This guy sounds like a jerk. You shouldn't be looking through emails- that's as bad as opening up regular mail. Ask him one more time if he has been in contact with his ex highlighting the fact that you need honesty in your relationship. If he still says no tell him you know he is lying. He really seems shifty and I don't know why you would still want to be with him. It may all be innocent. He might just be on a friendly basis with her and thought you would get angry. But he is still lying to you. If he can lie easily about one thing he can lie about other stuff too.

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