What is the most proper identification of a gentleman?

Why does being a gentleman have to suck soo bad at times...?

• Like, I am only a gentleman. I can't act like an @$sh0le and get girls. I am not unattractive, like I get a lot of girls to like me by my looks, like they come to me calling me cute nd hot nd stuff when i go like downtown, but when they start talking to me, they don't like how im a gentleman. Like there is benefits to being one, and there are also times when i am so envious of others who have it in ways I wish I could have. It sucks so bad that I am eventually always friend zoned. Sadly, there are too many girls that can't and won't appreciated a gentleman, and not one that is going to treat them like an @s$hole. It just sucks. Not saying being a gentleman is all bad, but it certainly is not the best in a lot ways either. sorry if this all sounds like a rant, i just needed a vent for steam to be let out that ha been building up for a while

• Answer:

  You sound like a great guy. I would totally go for you. The only thing that I would suggest is when you catch a girl do be afraid to be a little ruff with her (if you know what it means). I think every girl likes that but not as in demanding. What I mean is not to be crazy and stop her from hanging out with guys and stuff. If there is someone that you like go for it!!