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How do I change my personal goal for Relay for Life?

What to do when you get sick of your life and can't change it for now?

  • It's been 10 years I am living a complicated life. I had a very good life before getting married. After marriage my life changed to just accepting what my husband decide for my life, somehow. Like moving to other country or any other things, which It wasn't my desire to do them. Now I am stock in this life and for some reasons I have to stay with my husband to finish some paper works. But it is taking too long and now this kind of life style is making me sick. I am very depressed as I can't change all this and in the other hand is very hard to live like this. I have no family near me to go to them sometimes or stay with them till my problem solve. I feel like a prisoner :( Do not know what to do and how handle all this confusing life? I talk to psychologist too but nothing changed because i want to change my life but I can't now. How can I live a little comfortable till I get through my problems?

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    I may be way younger then you, and have never married before, it seems like your husband is a control freak? (Don't want to say it in an improper way). I studied something similar to this, where most married women felt trapped and felt like a "prisoner" like you did. Talk to your husband about how you feel (but if you already did and he did nothing), divorce him. Obviously he doesnt care about what you think and feel and husbands are suppose to be like that. They are suppose to care and protect their loved ones. I don't want to ruin your marriage, and most marriages have complications and irritations but most of them turn out great. Try to figure something out with your husband and if he keeps ignoring these problems, call your parents or friends and see if they need you to divorce. I struggle with depression too (clinically bipolar), and it sucks having that "suddenly sad, depressed feeling," feeling alone and irritable in this world, try talking to a psychologist once more (like I did), and see if these problems keep going and if you need to seek medications. I want you to get better because you have so much to offer to this world. Message me for any advice or problems you need to discuss with. I'll give you my honest, best answer. -Always your friendly yahoo answerer. [email protected]

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Well I would say you need to talk to a different psychologist. If the one you are seeing isn't giving you some outlets to deal with how you feel then there is something wrong. That person should be giving you ideas on how to cope with your situation, something to bide your time, like volunteering somewhere, or maybe child day care, or a part time job. Something to take your mind off of how miserable you are in your current situation.

Imadad

Well, if you're looking for comfort, till you're freed up, the easiest solution would probably be to embrace it. You're in a certain situation, and you can't leave, so why not simply immerse yourself into it. If you can't do it seriously, be so good at it, that it's almost a caricature. It can be your own inside joke.

Neil

divorce him and get the life you want. no decent man would force his wife to move somewhere she was deeply unhappy or force her to live an unhappy life. why are you with him?

Tutti Frutti

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