How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back?

How do I get my ex-girlfriend to come back to me?

• My ex-girlfriend recently broke up with me a little more than a month ago and I'm dying to get her back. We dated for about 5 months. I need a simple method, one that could work preferably over text messaging (she is always busy, I hardly get to hang out with her). The reason she broke up with me is because she feels we should get to know each other better and start off as friends. I'm trying to get to know her, and I am, but it seems to be going down hill. Please don't tell me about the m3 system or about the Text Your Ex Back system or other systems because I'm only 14 and I really can't afford an expensive program. I feel stupid because I have tried the guilt trip and self-pity and begging and I learned that I shouldn't have, but what can I do? She really is the girl of my dreams and the only person I really connect to. I love her so much, so please don't say I am just an ignorant, immature, stupid little stereotypical teenager. Because I'm not. Really. I know people like that and TRUST me, I am not one of those!! P.S. this is a girl-girl relationship just so ya know! :D Okay, well thanks in advance!!!

• Answer:

  You should try and follow a few rules staying near her wont do you any good not to take her back and not to your own self esteem, she enjoys the fact your chasing her while she his interested in other guys follow this few steps. Remember girls like a challenge if your to easy you are not interesting enough. This Are The Steps: Stay away - don't contact or talk to her for about 3-4 weeks. Nothing at all no facebook no sms no phone no meetings leave him alone. For you even more maybe 1.5months. Use the time you got to you got to understand what went wrong in your relationship. Where you feeling insecure? Where you trying to make sure he stays yours? Where you to clingy? Where you to willing to please? Date other girls (will only do you good) Must break ups are a direct result of lack of self esteem and the best cure for self esteem is working out so I will recommend you start working out daily a walk for 3 minutes a day is Awesome! th After that month just random meat her with a girl on your side don't try to make her jealous your going out to have fun if you go out to make her jealous you lost her. You can always do this "phone game" as well Send her this massage : slut? They usually answer. If she answers what? You get the window open start a small conversation no missing or touchy stuff totally what's up and what's new with this new tv set or something like that . If she answers yes you answer just checking and its game on. If she answers No. Again the gate is open try another funny question. Iron Rule! 1 take it slow and make her "earn" the right to sleep with you. Iron Rule! 2 You Never Chase This is Her Turn To Chase You If She "Runs" You Move to Another Girl. For More Information Please Visit My Site In The Source, Truly Yours,Jon.