How to get my mother to STOP opening my mail?
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It's seriously getting on my nerves. she never used to open my mail and packages and boxes when I was younger but now that I'm older she's opening all my stuff like if it's her name on it. I'm seriously considering putting my brother's name when I order things online so that she wouldn't open it. It's so frustrating to come home and find all my packages and boxes thrown on my bed ripped open thrashed around inside. She doesn't even do it neatly she just rips it open and mixes everything around then when she's doing she either THROWS IT AWAY(she's done that plently of times), leaves it with the rest of the mail, or throws it on my bed. And I've noticed she only open certain mail that arouses her curiosity or nosiness I should say ( don't even get my started on how much of a hypocrite she is when she calls our neighbor nosy). She leaves boring old college letters alone but opens any materialistic things (things I order online) and it's seriously pushing my buttons. If I say anything she'll lash out and start yelling and rant about how she pays for everything and blah blah blah and that she's got a right to open my packages because she needs to know what I order online. If she wants to know what I've ordered she can politely ask me after I've opened the package and if it's something I don't mind telling her I'll tell her and if it's private I'll lie and say it's a book or something (like i used to do when i was younger and she never opened my mail). It's obviously illegal to open anyone's mail even if they're your child. There's just no way I can ask her w/o getting the most dramatic reaction of yelling and **** I don't wanna hear. How can I tell her I'm sick of finding my packages open? By the way something tells me that she knows it pisses me off by the face I make whenever she hands me open mail but does it anyway just to get on my nerves... so I don't know what you'd make out of that but I need for her to stop now.
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Answer:
When you stop living under your mother's roof you can stop complaining about her opening your mail.
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Just tell her it's a federal offense and if she doesn't listen have the cops talk to her but not arrest her. You can have the cops talk to someone without having to press charges against them.
*I<3BGF*
Report her. Its a federal offense to open someone else's mail. If it has ur name on it and she opens it, then she is going to prison for a few years.
Allysa
Move out.
jenniferology
tell herfe
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