How to help make one of my dreams come true?

Dead people come to my dreams, I need help to make it mean something!!?

• The first dream i had about a dead person was in 1998 about 2 weeks after my nanny died. She came into my dream and kinda was saying her goodbyes and telling me she loved me. I became so freaked out i woke up and started yelling at her out loud about why she would do that to me and never do it again because i was so freaked out. I didn't realize at the time that i should have embraced the fact that she was there, i did say my goodbyes to her as well but i was scared. Since i told her not to come back into my dreams it took me about 8 years of convincing myself i was ready for her to come back so for a year i would say out loud before i went to bed "Please come and see me again I miss you" and so on. Finally she came back into them, she would only come into them at first to where i couldn't see here but i could sense her presence and hear her voice. Since than she has come into my dreams about once a month and now we just hang out and have fun. I still know she is dead but that's ok because it fills the void of her and i treasure them dreams now and wait for them to come. I've also have had a dream about my childhood friend that was recently murdered and she showed me how the night of her death played out before i ever heard about it from anyone else. That was kinda creepy because i felt she was trying to help me see who did it and how it happened. I wasn't sure at the time that it was real but a few days later on the news they said who murdered her and it was the same person she told me who did it. I've also have had O.B.E quite a few times. I've learned how to control my dreams and take as much out as i can but i don't think i know exactly what i'm looking for. In one of the out of body experiences I've been thrown up against my walls and wasn't able to move or wake up. Since then I've learned all that i can now move my body from that position it hurts and is hard but i have a lot of practicing since they happen pretty often. I've once even had an O.B.E about people in my bathroom at my house. There was an older mother and her daughter who was also a mother and she had a son she was giving him a bath but really bad things were happening to him from the mother, finally the grand-mom cam in a started fighting with her daughter to get her to stop. This time i was fighting myself to wake up because i was crying so hard. There was nothing i could do in the dream the people couldn't see me or hear me so not to sure what that meant. I'm not sure if i am really having O.B.E but thats the only way i can explain them, i know that im awake but i know that im sleeping and i cant get out of them sometimes. If anyone has any advice or anything to share to help me feed this part of me that so badly needs to understand this it would be great. I would love for this to grow and for me to become more in tuned to my abilities in my dreams. Thanks so much for reading this. Thanks Again, Ashley

• Answer:

  Humans have the ability to control what they dream about. The is an underlying spiritual aspect along with something deep down in your heart, mind, soul that desires to have that final goodbye with loved ones lost and you are able to access the portion of the human psyche through dreams. If you are searching for a deeper meaning it could revolve around letting go or feeling alone. You spirit could be telling you to move on or that it isn't too late to resolve things with family and friends around you to make peace with those living and cherish the moments of each day. I hope i helped. This is hard to do on a mobile but you have a gift. Not one interpretation is more significant than the next.