What's the best way to show him I'm sorry?
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I don't want any insults and that crap from anyone just good advice please Ok so me and my boyfriend have been fighting for a few weeks now, It's been about a number of things, first of all we work together so we try our best not to let it affect work and it works 90% of the time and we are pretty good at hiding arguments etc from other staff, Anyway the first argument was about how I talk to a few guys in work and my boyfriend feels like I spend more time laughing and joking and talking to them than I do with him, so I tried my best to start talking to my boyfriend more, but because he is management I can't spend a lot of time hanging around just chatting with him, and when I do try talking to him he just walks away as if he didn't hear me and sometimes he ignores me on purpose he admitted to that today he said I do it to him so he is going to do it to me, he feels like I'm purposely out to upset him and make him jealous, I apologized for this and I try not to talk to the guys when he is around and I try to talk to him but he still ignores me most of the time. I have been accused of cheating at least 5 times a week with pretty much every guy he has seen me talk to since we got together 8 months ago. The second big argument was when he was asked to work in another store to help out because some management were sick so he went there for 2 weeks and I didn't see much of him even outside work, which I didn't mind I knew it was only for 2 weeks I could live with that, but then he told me that another manager in the store he went to was coming on to him and kept asking for his number and asking him out, I respect him for telling me straight away, I appreciate his honesty about it and he made it clear that he wasn't interested in her, he said she is the type of girl who would have anything in trousers, even though I trust him now I didn't when he told me about it and I of course got worried and a bit jealous, He added her and her little sister who he has never met to Facebook and they (the manager and him) were sending each other private messages on it, (I seen him on his phone a few times that's how I found out) Though he says they were all work related when I asked and he even said I could see them if I didn't believe him, I didn't ask to see them we had decided to trust each other at this point it was something that became a huge issue but we just have to trust each other if it's going to work right? he deleted her from Facebook and her sister because I didn't want him talking to her if she was flirting with him. The third big argument was when he was still working in the other store and a manager from a completely different store went to help in the store he went to and claimed that 2 guys from the store I work in told her that our relationship wasn't serious and that she could have my boyfriend if she wanted and they apparently told her told come between us because our relationship was over anyway, when the 2 guys she mentioned were asked by me what they said, one of the guys said he didn't know who she was and the other said they were talking about how she was going to the same store as he was in and the guy mentioned that he was going out with me and that's all that was said, the 2 guys are middle aged and never get involved in this stuff so we put it down to her being a ***** who was just out to cause trouble and we moved on from it. The 4th argument was today when he was offered a permanent position in the other store and he told me he was considering it even though he told me he hated it there, he hated the staff, he hated the store in general, hated the area it was in, hated the long distance it was away from home (2 hour drive) hated the drama that went on there, and swore he would never go back, He said he was considering it because I don't talk to him as much as I do others, I make him feel second best, he feels like I ignore him and purposely try to upset him by talking to other guys which I haven't done in weeks, he asked me if I wanted him to go and I said no because I'd miss him and I'd never see him, I gave him all the reasons to stay, I'd miss him, travel distance and cost, leaving family, money is the same etc, then he went back to how he can't work in the current store because I make him feel ignored, second best and then he said he was never going to take the job he just used it to get me to stop talking to other guys and start talking to him but he doesn't get that I try to and he ignores me! he got so upset he had to to into the office away from everyone because he was starting to cry I never ever intentionally set out to hurt him I wasn't even aware I was doing anything wrong, I want him to know how sorry I am but I don't want to just say it, I want to show him I'm sorry, can someone help me with some ideas with how I can do that???? I'd be so grateful
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Answer:
It sounds like drama. Let it go, dont beg him either. If he is ment he will come back to u. If not oh well life gose on
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