How to approach a girl you never talked with?
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Okay, there is a girl in my school like always that can't get out of my mind, next week in school is also my las t in this school and maybe the last few hours i'll be able to see her and my last chance. We exchanged a few looks but that's it, it would be a lot easier if we were going in the same class but we're separated and i see her only durring breaks, when she goes to gym class and when she goes home. I tried to contact her on facebook but she didn't reply and ignored my friend request. I started to like this girl when she pointed her finger at me smiling with her friend because when i was walking by the hall i was eating the puff pastry and i had a little bit over my mouth, you know... What should i do?!?!?! This is the last time i'll ever see her(probably) and i'm deciding should i leave as a pussy or as a man, if i don't ask her i will never, but how should i approach her and talk to her, should i ask her directly would she like to go out with me????? Please do understand that i exchanged a look with her not a word:D Okay, i want to approach her without being a total creep, here's the scenario of me approaching to her: Le me going to school and i see her coming from gym and i fly to her as fast as i can so i can start a conversation with her while she is not in company so i wouldn't feel uncomfortable. I approach her to shake hands and i say my name expecting her to tell me her name too(even though i know it) and i directly ask her, "listen it's last week of school now so i was wondering if you, ugh... i kind of like you for a while now but i didn't know how to approach you, but i wanted to ask you would you like to go out with me on saturday or maybe go for some coffee?" Please give me serious answers.
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Answer:
Your idea sounds sweet but your over thinking this, most interactions never meet up to pare with what we had planned. Just be confident, don't think of it as the last time you'll see her and make a joke to put the situation at ease.
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Follow the bellow instruction- 1. Make it easy on yourself. 2. Chunk it Down. I used to have a big fear of starting a conversation with a girl until I learned this very simple process of chunking it down. 3. Rejection = Success. This is probably the hardest thing for guys to understand when learning to approach girls. And this is that the more rejected you get, the more successful you will become. Don't do it- 1. Invading her personal space. When you walk over to start your conversation with her, don’t make her feel threatened by getting too close to her, or acting as if she is going to be stuck talking to you for hours. 2. Appearing too nervous or insecure. Girls can very easily pick up on your level of nervousness talking to them. And it is very unattractive to a girl when a guy is scared to talk to her. 3. Complimenting her too much. When you approach a girl avoid excessively complimenting her. In fact, avoid complimenting her at all. More information-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aACP-Y0FyXA
Sajjadul haque
don't do that, first of all it's all in your confident and your posture Google for help in how to look more confident and don't think about what your going to say just walk to her and let your mouth talk, if your think about how to talk to her you will get more anxious, so just walk to her and talk but don't say that you like her, NEVER do that she will send you to her friend zone as soon as you tell her, so just walk to her and ask her out if she says no, don't worry you will get better and better each try ;) http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/fake-it-till-you-make-it-10-ways-to-feel-confident-even-when-you-aren%E2%80%99t/
Joel
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