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I hate my mom and I want to die?

  • Over these past few years things have been really hard. I don't know how it started. Since three years ago, me and my mom fought every single day. She hit me and screamed at me .. We screamed at each other. We can't even go for a day without fighting. She would always say really horrible words to me. At first, I was hurt and I cried for hours.. After a few months I got used to her words and that hurt I felt before got replaced with anger. I stopped caring about her and instead of saying nothing, I started shouting back at her. This has been going on for years .. I get so mad at times I cut myself. When my mom found out I had been cutting myself, she hit me even more. I cut myself almost everyday now .. I'm just so angry and mad ... I tell myself I won't cut next time but my mom's shouting and hitting is like a trigger, it makes me cut myself. I've been failing and ditching school ... I stay home every day and I can't seem to talk to my friends about this. I feel like they won't understand what I've been going through. I'm always feeling sad and down... I'm never happy or having fun. I feel really depressed all the time and I always have the urge to cut myself. I think about suicide sometimes but I can never get myself to do it. I want to run away from my mom and start a happy life .. don't know what to do. I try to tell my mom about my problems but when ever I do, we always end up screaming at each other. I try to be calm but the words she say make me so mad and sad. My dad left us 11 years ago ... what's wrong with me? What can I do?

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    There is nothing wrong with you. When you are mad or sad, instead of cutting try writing. That helped me stop. I would type in a word document then not save it- so nobody knows. There is something wrong with your mom. My mom is the same way, I was in a very similar situation. I moved in with my grandma a few years ago and things got so much better. My mom has serious mental conditions making her like that. It gave me depression, being treated like that all the time. I talked to my doctor and she started me on antidepressants and told me about local teen homes. There are options for you, talk to your doctor. Do everything you can to avoid confrontation with your mom. She only hurts you because she seriously feels hurt herself. it's nobody's fault. It can be hard to help someone like that. It sounds like you need to get away from the situation. Could stay with a relative or friend if you do not want to go to a teen home. Someone I know went to one and they said it wasn't bad at all, that you were allowed to go out and do things, use the internet, choose your school, ect. They said it was more like an endless summer camp. Look into other options for schooling to make up everything you've missed. Once your grades are up go for a job and save up to be emancipated. Even if you are not old enough you can save up for the future, and it will be soooo worth it. Your doctor can tell you about that too. If you do not have a doctor's appointment soon you could pretend to be sick so you end up there. Do not tell your mom you want to leave, it would cause more problems. Tell them you don't want your mom in the room then tell the doctor everything you typed up there. They will do everything they can to help you. Don't ever kill yourself. There's so much more out there, it's not as far as it seems

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How old are you? If you are old enough just get out of the house its not that hard. If your a younger child call CPS or the cops. Life will get better but you have to want to stand up for yourself and try. And cutting yourself is not the answer to the pain trust me.

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Wow. First off, you should NEVER cut yourself or harm yourself. No matter how bad things get. Do you have someone you can talk to? Grandparent ? Teacher ? Guidance Counselor ? You need to talk to someone, before this gets worse. But PLEASE stop cutting yourself. My best friend cut herself when her dad died and she bled to death. It broke my heart and I don't want that to happen to anyone else.

Me and my mom don't get along either,,, neither do me and my dad, I'm only 11. I cut, I'll admit it. Block her out, I'm very young and I'm in Canada, I wrote a book, wrote songs, and plan to move to the UK. I recommend planning and helping the future you. I told a boy the night before I killed myself... he convinced me not to, so find a friend and try to tell them, sometimes they don't seem understanding, but they are. Stay Strong!!! If you want to email me leave your address when u pick best answer (say something like: Melly, my email is------------) If you don't its fine, but I really want to help because I know you don't deserve this. (

Melly

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