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I HATE MY COUSIN SHE'S RUINING MY HIGH SCHOOL LIFE I JUST WANT TO DIE!?

  • I'm a 16 year old junior and my cousin is a 16 yo sophomore. We go to the same high school since hers was burnt down last January and all the sudents in her school were transferred into mine. I CAN'T STAND HER. She's ALREADY become student council president, captain of the field hockey team, head of the fashion design club, a straight A Honors student, and everyone calls her the prettiest girl in the school. She hangs out with all the popular/jock/preppy kids. No one EVER tries to confront her because she's so friggin popular and she knows how to bite people back and insult them!! Im not like her. I personally identify as a goth and I hang out with all the goth kids. Because of this, all her friends call me weird and she doesnt give a crap. I've heard that she talks crap about me because Im sexually active and smoke pot. She thinks shes better than me because shes a virgin. Even though she's a giant prude though ALL THE GUYS STILL WANT HER. ITS ANNOYING!!!! We USED to be close when we were young. But then once I changed my image in sixth grade, she started ignoring me. Both of our moms are fairly close and they both want us to get along. But I cant get along with her. She makes my life a living hell. Every day people come up to me and compare me to her. They tell me Im ugly, fat, dumb, slutty and that its amazing that I share her DNA. I know this bullying will never stop until she's out of my life. I cant stand to look at her anymore. She's the devil and she's destroying my existence. What should I do!? I feel like dying!!!!!!! (Im on my moms account btw, cuz quite frankly I dont want a yahoo account. She won't see this question though. She hasn't used this account for months.)

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    Calm down bic boi! She's not doing anything to you! You're just a jealous little kid.

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First when you said that you know this bullying won't stop until she is out of your life, your wrong there. Unfortunately no matter what you do or how famous or popular you get you will always have people talking about you. People you know, people you don't people are always going to talk about you. Now back to your problem with your cousin ruining your life, she can only do that if you allow her to do so. When I was your age i went through the goth phase, and no i'm not saying that this is just a phase for you. but one thing about being goth if you are a true goth you could care less what what other people do or say. I think that there is a part of you no matter how small that wants to be in your cousins place. And high school boys like dating the popular girls especially the one that don't have sex because they believe that they will be the one guy that does it, and once one of them does, he'll have gotten what he wanted and will move on. She's your cousin no matter what either of you do or say you will always be family, you two need to work out your problems, and be there for each other. It also sounds like you hide behind being goth because you are afraid to let people see the real you, because you feel that you won't be able to compare to your cousin. You said that she is the devil and if you were really goth you would not be annoyed by her being the "devil". You need to find the true you, you need to look down deep inside you and find who you are. You need to love you for you you are. You need to realize that you are beautiful, and smart, you need to be happy with yourself before others can see the real you, not the you that you let people see. Good Luck

Momma of 5

Who cares about her? Even though I'm kinda like her, screw her. Just try to get along and who knows, maybe you guys could be on good terms for a change? After all you are family and your stuck with her! Ignore people. And btw, she isn't as bad as you think. She could be a good example for you, but hey, just be yourself.

Mikayla

Your causin sounds like a straight out *****. Sorry to say but its true. Just ignore her. She won't have any popularity once she's out of high school. Shell be a wanna be perfect bitchy virgin. And yes shell be a looser for that. Also shell end up alone with 20 fuckn cats Because she thinks she's too perfect for any guy. Lol. Anyways she a ***** and you seem like a chill person with more personality than she'll ever have. Dont worry things change. She's on top now but people won't give a **** about her anymore once she's out of stupid high school groupies.

Ana

You know why you feel like that? BECAUSE YOU'RE LETTING HER DO THAT. If your image is portray the 'i dont care' look be expected to get those comments! Your cousin worked hard for her grades and is the head of such BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO. Whenever someone compares you to her just flip them off. Be like "I'm no prissy lookin btch dont you dare compare me to her" then walk away.

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