How can one deal with Obsessive-Compulsive tendencies?

Is he gay or have gay tendencies?

• I've noticed a few "tendencies" about my new boyfriend so I asked him straight-out if he was gay (no use wasting my time and getting hurt by finding out later) so after some questioning he admitted to me that, while he says he's not gay, he "experimented" by letting another guy go down on him. He says at first it fwhenever but when he opened his eyes and saw another man instead of a woman. He did tell me he fooled around with a guy when he was younger cuz he thought he was gay but it was not for him. I'm just wondering if he may be more "gay" than he wants to admit. But it's different with women. I just want to know if he may be gay or just have gay tendencies, he's a little "sensitive" but he's not feminine. He's a big, strong, hard-working man. But I've seen all types who were on the Down Low. I'll be with him regardless, just want to know. Also he never had a gf before and only been with one woman and me sexually . It would not be a big deal but he all most 30. Next he likes his nipples played with and likes to be spanked a little bit. He says he is a late bloomer and had to over come things like social anxiety and was very shy.

• Answer:

  It does not sound like it. He just tried it once and did not like it.