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I feel like I'm missing out on my childhood?10 pts?

  • Ok...so a few days ago when I was at gym with my cousin (he's 27)..we started talking..he talked to me abt enjoying my childhood..and not trying to grow up to fast coz he says childhood only happens once and that being an adult isn't that great (since my high school is kinda a bad influence..as in drugs,sex,smoking etc)..so it really got me thinking...I am truly ruining my childhood..ok since 2010 I've never had a proper childhood since my parents were in a bad financial state...but now my moms getting on her feet again..she's a single mom to me..my dad abandoned us so yeah..my relash with my mom is getting better..the only thing is...I feel like I'm ruining my childhood...this year...honestly has taught me a lot..I lost my best friend..shall I say who I thought was my best friend...I went into my high school which I hate..and since I didn't agree with one of the girls at my school to become a slut she spread rumors so now I have no friends..only one whose a stalker..she's 18 and in grade 8..and she stalks me...I pretend to be her friend so I'm not alone..but she follows me everywere even to the bathroom!and she stalks guys too...on facebook..she's a physco...anyway please give me some advice?I basically want to move schools...but my mom at the moment won't let me coz of our finacial state..but next year maybe..since business is going well..please tell me how to convince her to let me move schools?(Ill obviously ONLY try convince her if we get better finacially)..and tips and advice will be REALLY apreciated..thanks for reading..o yeah and I'm 14

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    aw x i know where your coing from, my school's meant to be good but its not really, my friends arent really friends and i think im depressed.. talk to your mum or a trusted teacher, she will undertand if you tell her why, as for the stalker girl, tell her to bog off or again tell a trusted teacher or adult? dont worry hun<3 it wil be okay x x x

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Your at an age where girls choose the high road or the low road. You really sound on the border line here but you also sound highly intelligent and have good instincts to really listen and even show maturity beyond your years. So I having worked with girls your age can really understand how divorce and other issues effect the teen years. And honey your just not alone at all, many young people have this cross to bear and at a time of big hormones coming on. 15 is the very hardest year for girls esp because your not a child anymore and you can see over the top and can glimmer a future but are stuck in the present that is just unacceptable and then the hormone overload causes major moods and sometimes deep depression. MY ADVICE: Develop humor (study it, look for it in movies and reading, develop it) develop hobbies, develop passions and get involved (animal shelters, food bank volunteering, liter cleanup, teach reading, daycare volunteer for homeless kids etc) and develop a sport. Biking, running, tennis golf, swimming (teach swimming) etc. And then join a church youth group and be active and make friends. This is how adults live and by these activites they naturally make friends with like minded people! I think your sharp and ofcourse you want HS friends but do not contain yourself to the 1 only thing of school clicks. Develop your self educationally but trust Jesus to bring the right friends into your life. I like Mother Theresa of Calcuttas Prayer called"Jesus My All in All" found online. Also Google on utube Chris Tomlin song, "I will Rise" ( If you research another local HS and how you would daily get there and return, then maybe your mom would interview the school for you. But be careful to have a good reason why. I would conclude bullying.)

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