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How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating on you?

How do you know when your boyfriend is cheating?

  • what are the obvious sign if someone is cheating and did anybody experience this kind of thing ever? I ask my boyfriend where he is going? and he told me where he was going but I just don't believe him. is it me who should just learn to trust him. and the only reason why I feel like this is because a couple months go I found out he was married and had kids. and I didn't even know. been together over five years and have 2 kids with him. and if i did know he was married a would of told to go way. and he currently living with me right know. good answers please not negative thank you.

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    You had two children with someone you didn't know well enough to know he had been telling you lies about his marital status?! Your children's needs have to come first, of course - he has other children from what you say, so you are the person ultimately responsible for their needs. If he cheated on his wife with you for so long and seems to have got away with it, what is to stop him doing it again with other women gullible enough to swallow his stories? You may be madly in love with him, but if you are going to demonstrate to your children that women should be doormats for the men they love, I'd urge you to do some serious thinking. And talking. Surely you need to establish together what you think a marriage type relationship is (the difference being that you didn't make vows to each other in front of witnesses, for example). If you want to retain and improve your realtionship, you must both agree to be honest with each other. I suggest you both read Dr Phil McGraw's excellent book, Relationship Rescue. (I wish I got commission, as I recommend it to so many people!). As he says in the book, it’s not only for people whose relationships are in trouble.

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He's cheating. Anyone who can keep 2 families going for so long, isn't likely to stop once they're found out, and isn't likely to stop at you and the other one either.

shortie

he is cheating cause if he is not cheating then he would have told you about him.

Raju

Normally I would say kick him to the curb, but lets face reality here. It's not like you have a choice in men anymore, you gave that up popping 2 kids out for the guy. And in this economy I doubt you'd find a job to support yourself and 2 kids. And if he doesn't have a job then why keep him there, other than.. sorry to say, you can't do any better.. and you know it.

Dr. Insanity

How did you not find this out before??? Confront him and then if he still denys it I would kick him out.. he obviously only cares about himself and loves having his cake and eating it so to speak.. am so sorry you have ended up with a relationship based on lies... But you could always ignore it and carry on as normal... He should learn to be honest.. not you learn to trust him... Unless trusting a liar is your thing..

mouse

hun, that relationship is poison..if you are smart, kick his lyign @ss out the door..he is nothing but a massive POS and you need ot tag him for child support and so does his current wife..she needs to nail him to the cross. Do you not see anything wrong with what he is doing and done?? I'm a guy and usually applaude the "playa" but this is just wrong hun.

How do you know he's not cheating pn his wife with you while trying to 'patch up' his marriage? You don't! I'd move out and live at my parents, it's your best option- you deserve better and some day you will find love again. Get a part time job is possible it'll help you boost your independency.

hello

Hope he earns enough money to support all the children....sounds like he migh run out opf moneyuor on you....make sure you go to family court and seek child support immediately...i I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH SWEET MILDRED

Daniel

He's obviously cheating. You're an idiot for staying with him. He's married!

when he will

Michael

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