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How To Build Self Esteem And Confidence?

How an I build self esteem/confidence/ego?

  • A lot of girls stare at me. And I kno I'm 'atractive' but I have a LOW self esteem :( techniques on how I can build it?

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    You just have to start thinking positive thoughts. Even if they sound repetitive and useless at first, every morning you should wake up thinking, "I'm attractive, I'm smart, I'm nice, and I'm kind." I know it sounds REALLY corny, but it worked for me! I read it on some website, and the first week I thought it was so stupid, but after a while, my ego really went up and now I'm not so shy anymore. At first I was a little worried that if I said it too much I might get too cocky, but I've realized that if I have the type of personality to have a low self esteem, I probably won't ever be cocky or overconfident. Just try it out, it can't hurt.

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Try physical activity, anything really I play rugby, soccer, badminton, and hockey and they always give me a little bit of confidence that I will win so just try and ask out one of these girls or get a job get laid.

The best way to start this project off is doing for others. I endeavor you to work for your community, immerse yourself in community service. This is called the do-good-feel-good phenomenon. I guarantee your confidence level will shoot up because you are confident with yourself in your ability to help others and make them happy. This will immediately show around your peers with your language, charisma and overall presence. Good luck!

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