How To Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back Fast?

My ex has a new boyfriend? How do i win her back for good?

• I lost my ex in january. She dated another guy and then realised what mistakes she had made. Then we tried to work it out. It was a lot of ups and downs but she had just had enough. Now i really wanna make a go of it. I want her to forget about the other guy and be with me. Without the problem happening again. How can i show her im better for her and make her come back?

• Answer:

  Hi, Your hopes are hanging on thin rope if you truly believe that your Ex has any intention of forgetting the relationship she has already invested in this other person. Even if you two get back together, how do you know she will not slip back to him when things get rough? Winning someone back for good is like attaining an everlasting candy that never loses it's shape or taste: you will forever be wanting the perfection of it's purity but it just doesn't exist as it has been tasted too much. It must be really difficult for you, yet facing the facts has to be real as well as for your Ex. It is highly unlikely she will commit herself if she has had enough of everything - her heart is not in the relationship you once had, no matter how much you try and tell yourself differently. Once damage has been done you cannot repair it unless you are both going to be available to the relationship. If she is seeing this other man and is not prepared to let him go, then you are going to try and make things work on your own, it takes two fully committed people not just one. Your ex has decided that she will have someone in the background whenever there are problems so you are either going to accept this or go your separate ways. Do what you must to talk to her, yet few relationships can last or exist long-term when there has been infidelity on either side.