How can I stay friends with this girl? Do you think I should send her this message?
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She is now avoiding me in school and she is ignoring my text messages. I never told her I like her, but I think she knows. I want to remain friends with her. Should I tell her how I feel about her..or do I just tell her that I realise she doesn't feel the same way about me and I don't want her to feel awkward around me and I still want to be friend with her? How should I approach this? She is very independent and she may just not want a relationship right now. I was thinking of sending this message to her.. Her name, I understand the message that you are trying to send to me by not responding to my texts anymore. I want to let you know that I was starting to like you and I care about you. I thought that you liked me too , but I must have misread you. I think you are a really pretty, smart, nice, and overall just a great girl but I can tell at this point that the feelings are not mutual. I'm sorry if I came off as being clingy or awkward around you . I'm just a shy person and this would change if I was given the opportunity to hang out with you. Can't we just leave the awkwardness behind us and still be friends? I don't want you to feel uncomfortable around me anymore or feel like you have to avoid me anymore.
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Answer:
i think your message is pretty mature. i would leave out a few lines of this bc they may come out a little harsh. also i would leave out that line with all the compliments, you don't want to make her feel even more uncomfortable if she doesnt like you. this is how i would edit it: Her name, I want to let you know that I was starting to like you and I care about you. I thought that you liked me too , but I must have misread your actions. I'm sorry if I came off as being clingy or awkward around you . Can't we try to leave the awkwardness behind us and still be friends? I don't want you to feel uncomfortable around me anymore or feel like you have to avoid me anymore. Sorry if i took some of it out, just thinking how i would feel if i received/sent this message to someone.
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