How do I get my ex boyfriend to talk to me?? PLEASE HELP!?
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broke up with my boyfriend a week ago over the phone. I told him, after not really speaking to him for 2 weeks (even though I tried to contact him), that although yesterday was our 6 months, I forgot we were dating. I was going to take down the relationship status until we get a sound footing when we're not busy anymore, and it's not working for me. He just said "whatever makes you happy" and I was like wow, so you're cool with breaking up? and he said "if that's what makes you happy" and I said "you do make me happy, but we aren't treating each other well, and times aren't good right now. you haven't spoken to me in 2 weeks, and I know we were both busy, but two weeks is just too long." and he was like "i'm sorry, I've been busy with work and I've been getting an hour of sleep each night. I have a lot going on. I'm just busy" and I just said I understood, and next time I'll treat him like I want to be treated and hope we can work things out in the future and talk about this in person, since he's been avoiding seeing me I think. he was like "ok. BYE." and hung up. 2 hours later, he deleted me from everything, and untagged himself from all of our pictures. that hurt. after dumping I realized I made a mistake because I'd only been home for a day and I was supposed to wait it out and see how things went since we both live in the same town now. oops. a couple of days later, I sent him a text saying "hey, I miss you. I know you're upset, and I made a mistake and I owe you an apology. I'd like to have a quiet chat with you for a short bit. let me know, if that's okay with you" and he never responded. I go on his gaming stream and this is what he had to say about me: i just broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months, he told me "whatever makes you happy" and took me off of everything. I still watch his gaming stream and sometimes I ask probing q's about him, and he was like "yeah, we just recently broke up. it just didn't work, she went away to school and that was fine, but then I just got tired of calls at 2 in the morning of her saying 'you don't care about me' and stuff. she actually broke up with me and I was like ok! she tried to get back together with me, and I ignored her haha" and people asked about what I looked like and stuff and he wouldn't say my name or who I was or anything. he just said I was cute and that I reminded him of MewTwo pokemon and I guess people kept pestering him about me and he just asked if people could give him some space. i tried giving him a call and of course he did not pick up. so i just left it alone. will he come back? does even care ?
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Answer:
me and you are kinda in the same problem look at my question about my ex :) but i dont think you made a mistake because being with someone means you spend time/talk/text whatever with this person more than anyone else really so for him to just not even pick up the phone for 2 weeks and try and turn it round on you its him in the wrong, not you!! why do boys play with our head ssoo much??
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Just one little advice for now on - "Think of the consequences before of say or do something"
Sahil
Why do you care? You sound young and naive to think that this would be the guy that you are with for a long time. You will go through the same type of relationship at least 3 more times before you find Mr. Right so just use this as experience.
Chris
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