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Why does he keep trying to make me his friends with benefit?

• Alright so basically, theres this guy whos a few years older than me whom i find attractive. he always stared at me and even approached me when i was 16. i saw him again when i was 17 and he invited me to get high with him as friends. i've had friends with benefit relationship with his mate and ive had a complicated sort of relationship with his brother whos around my age. long story short, he was staying over at this hotel the night before so he invited me there cuz it was too cold outside and its not like he can invite me to his house cuz he lives with his family. so im super high but hes not high as me and hes coming onto me alot and i made it clear with him that i dont do stuff like that with guys and that im more of a relationship person. and i managed to get out of that hotel and got a drive home from a friend. another friend of mine decided to spread rumour saying how he was tryna rape me and he was mad about it and called me and said that hes scared of whats being said and said "ur not even all that". whats that suppose to mean? anyway, a year later (now im 18) i thought the best thing to do is email him and say no hard feelings and that i want the situation to be forgiven and forgotten and he said whats happened has happened and that theres not point in me and him taking because we are on two different pages unless i had any suggestions or want the same thing as him . what he means is i want a relationship and he wants friends with benefit and unless i want a friends with benefit relationship then theres no point. he is clearly a jerk but why keep trying? and why do most guys only want friends with benefit relationship with me? like i dont even do sex lool. i just wanna see someone else's perspective and how can i avoid guys just wanting that from me.

• Answer:

  Thanks for answering my question btw :) friends with benefits never works out IMO. My brother was a player when he was my age which is 18. I know how he tricked girls and his tactics how to two time all girls. No girl wants to go through that. You'll feel like a fool when you realise you like him and he's been using you all along for sex and making out. With my fella... My heart is telling me to stay away from him and stop texting him and stuff. But my mind is telling me to wait for him to change and give him a chance. Think you should just follow your heart as cheesy as that sounds. Or things will get messy. What if one of the other girls he's seeing... He ends up liking and tells you he wants to be with her instead?