How to deal with a bossy and irritating boss?

BF as my "boss" is he too bossy or am I too witchy?

• My bf works construction. One of his resdiential homes needed cleaned- so he got me working for the owner. BF showed me everything that needed done (and a few things bf was doing for home owner on side too.) Homeowner (admittedly) has OCD and everything needs t be perfect. (Home has been in process for nearly 5 yrs.) I told bf it would be helpful to get a list from owner- as I do with other home owners I clean for- in order of importance. I always clean top to bottom- but maybe something is important. No list. I am up to nearly 40 hours and have bought cleaning supplies- paid babysitter (I have a toddler- but try to get relatives- as that is half I make.) I have not been paid anything yet. Late afternoon yesterday ... BF calls me at last minute and said homeowner wondered why I didnt wax basement floor (2500 sq. ft) as owner needs it done to move in furniture the next day. I didnt know- and I clean top to bottom- and I wanted a sunny day to see the floor- which I had told bf last week. He had asked when I was going to do it. So I ran over last evening and did it last minute. BF calls this morning and says ... looks like you need contacts or some lasik surgery- that floor is all streaked up- I can see it from __ city (45 miles away) .... blalala. That I need to get a babysitter (which I cant) and get over asap and redo before homeowner sees and so that furniture can get in. I call babysitter- but has college finals- so I cant get over til this evening again when I have a relative available (Plus I havent been paid and costs too much.) . I tell bf I could have swept, mopped. dried floor last night and put wax on tonight- before sun went down if I knew. I told him I need light, a fan (as it is very humid in basement). That last night I made a special last minute trip over- I have been sick with a fever and wanted to stay in. BF says I am blaming the sun in my eyes- etc- instead of just saying I did a bad job and he will have to help me do it tonight so he knows it gets done right. That I need to just move past it and he is trying to do this from work. I told him he should have started conversation with - hey I think that needs a second coat and do that this evening .... blalala. He constantly tells me- I am your boss .. and I just don't really mind it .. it just doesn't seem to be working for us... advice? ******* He just called me to see if I was coming up asap- so he could let the homeowner know. I already told him this evening. He then denied saying the contact/vision thing. WTH? I told him I would be there this evening. BF said he will have his work lights there lit up like walmart so I dont have problems seeing - as it is cloudy out. I told him I will borrow my relatives glasses ... bf says he doenst need the sarcasm that he is trying to help me. He says if homeowner wants it done in the dark I should do it in the dark and have OCD and make it perfect. That I work too fast. (2 plus hours wasnt ebough time). BF said if I cant do it right he will get his sister to do it and she will do it right and the homeowner will hire her. (Shes on disability ...)

• Answer:

  I think you need to find another job.