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I want to see my blood and feel pain?

  • I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm addicted to pain. I use pain to let go of built up tension, depression, everything. Pain gets me high, and I like it. I've been self harming since is was 7 (in different forms though) Recently, I've started cutting and burning myself. My parents have found out and they are making me stop, but I want to feel pain so badly. I've tried different ways of feeling pain, I've gotten piercings, I've had my boyfriend bite me, and my friends pull my hair, but the pain doesn't last long enough. When I self harm, I'd be in pain for days, the high would last for days, sometimes weeks. I need another way to feel pain, that won't leave marks on my skin. Please. Help. Thank you.

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    I want you to do something. Imagine the person you love the most, mom, dad, best friend, boyfriend, sibling, taking a razor to their wrist until they can't stand the pain anymore or burning their fingers until they're in tears. Would you let them do what you're doing? Imagine they feeling so..lost that they can't even talk to you about what's wrong before turning to self-harm. If you don't care if the people you love get hurt, well then forget all this. But if you do, imagine how the people who love you (and there are more of them then you think) feel about you hurting yourself. It kills them. Believe me, I know. One of my best friends used to cut and everytime I saw the marks on her wrist, I felt so broken, I just wanted to help. So instead of trying to figure out how to hide your self-harm, show someone. Anyone. And talk. Scream at someone, cry until you don't have tears, or just plain hug somebody. That stuff works. I promise. Please just give it a chance. Don't hurt yourself anymore. There are people out there who care.

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HARAM.

sarah k

You should go to a counselor.. seek therapy because this isnt good... there are much better highs and "pain" to endure without actually hurting yourself or making yourself feel pain (even if it isnt physically) just to get that feeling or release that energy you want to disappear... trust me there is a WHOLE lot more then that...

Nommity

You'll bleed to death if you keep cutting, take breaks frim. id prefer jus burn your skin.. or you can self harm on less exposed parts on your body, so your parents wont see.

NinjaCookie

You're insane, you should speak to your parents about this issue and they'll get you the proper counseling.

Erv.

Not good... instead of pain try a hobby or a shrink that will help u they might giveu shock therapy so try and do something like that and be careful plz...

ABE_13

stop.

Poop

Your body goes through many chemical changes when you are young, and this makes it hard to think clearly, this is the main reason for seeking outside help. I would ask your parents to look for a health professional who is an expert in this. Some people cut because they feel desperate for relief from bad feelings. People who cut may not know better ways to get relief from emotional pain or pressure. Some people cut to express strong feelings of rage, sorrow, rejection, desperation, longing, or emptiness. There are other ways to cope with difficulties, even big problems and terrible emotional pain. Seeking out the help of a mental health professional might be needed for major life troubles or these overwhelming emotions. For other tough situations or strong emotions, it can help put things in perspective to talk problems over with parents, other adults, or friends. Getting plenty of exercise can also help put problems in perspective and help balance emotions. I've had friends who were there, and they now just describe it as a difficult time in their lives which they moved on from.

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