How do I tell my crush that I'm "available?

How to tell my crush im gay?

• alright, so im 16 and gay, or at least bisexual mainly to the gay side. i haven't really had any kind of crush up until a few months ago, where i developed a crush on a close friend of mine. i don't know why, but i have, and i don't know how he feels, like whether hes gay or not. i have a feeling he is, but i dont know for certain, for example: at our friends house for a project, i was laying sprawled out on the couch and he showed up and layed down next to me, and put my feet close to his crotch and played with my leg hair. he also used to rub my leg(like knee area) while our friends and us were at a fast food place just hanging out. also, when him and a few other of my friends were staying over night at my house( unplanned, it just sorta happened), just for kicks a few of us just bunched up together on this biiiiiiig couch, him and i were next to each other. he put his legs over mine and my other friends(who are straight, the have gf's) were trolling, doing similar things. so thts how he and i fell asleep, the other 3 eventually went to sleep like a normal person. he also touches my face periodically, but rarer than the rest of my friends. this other time, while at a different friends house, there was one seat too few and he was the one left out, so he sat on my lap. i hugged him from behind and just leaned against hi for approximately 45 min. now, ive dropped a billion hints, i hug him a lot, i rub his leg back, i grabbed his arm and like held it when we were asleep. i touch his face and shoulder and neck playfully, i hug him a lottt. ive literally looked up how to tell if ur crush likes you, looked at the hints, and applied them to him. he doesnt have a girlfriend and never seems interested in any. however, he is interested in korean boy and girl bands, but i believe that it happened as a result of his sudden interest in trying to learn korean. now we always pretend to be gay for each other, but kind of do these affectionate signs secretly. he never approaches me for any of the things i do but we never talk about it either, seriously confusing me. anyways, i need advice because im constantly thinking about him and its beginning to affect(or is it effect?) other aspects of my life, including my school life(i find myself dozing off just thinking about this), for example i have a couple essays due tmrw tht i havent finished, but this is too important to me. anyways, some additional info: im a sophomore, 6 foot 5, white, really thin, where as he is a junior, filipino, a bit chubby, not short, but not tall. oh, and i havent come out to anyont. so, im in need of help, sorry for all the long details and all the reading. alright, im finished, and i need some advise of what to do and how to approach the matter. anyways, thank you in advance for any advise you give me, it will be greatly appreciated. i hope i left enough details, now imma go write some essays. >.>

• Answer:

  Invite him over and privately tell him that you like him. I think he can conclude that you are gay/bisexual