What is this guys behavior suggesting? Guys w/ good listening ear please HELP!?
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Ok, so i have been talking 2 this guy 4 19 mos now. It all started w/a skype my friend at the time had set up w/friends from another state 6 hrs away. I hit it off w/this kid and we talked all night. I basically helped him w/his @ the time g/f prob and we just laughed and talked. We flirted over text 24/7 for almost a couple of mos love sick chills etc. He always would vc and just gaze @ me with this stupid grin! He just said he loved to talk to me and i loved to talk to him. It got a little awkward @ one point nd we did not talk that much. I suspected him and that girl were 2 gether and i was heartbroken, but he had a low self esteem and always said i was very beautiful and cuz of this was prob popular. I must add he is very shy but so funny. Our personalities are very similar and in the beginning he said i was the whole package but approachable as well. I must add i am not a relationship wrecker, but to my surprise this girl was obese and not very pretty. In picks he un tags himself and does not have his arms around her. He even let me visit on campus and she has not been there yet. It is just funny it is about every 8 wks he sees her and sometimes wd run home to video chat me?? He was barely smiling in the pics of her senior prom 4 the other night and his arms were by his side feet pointing out. Weird to me. He texts me every weekend religiously. if i do not answer i usually get a hello? 1st visit: Very sweet he said WOW shaky voice u look just like u did on v/c walked around introduced me 2 friends said ppl thought we wer g/f b/f lol. hovered over me smile and smirk when we first met. Hugged me a few times and starred a me, i even had 2 look away. Friends thought i was hot! As i was driving away he said i miss u already and said that most of the night. 2nd visit: Same big grin caught him starring and grinning in car. Went for a light dinner walked around starred at me when we talked pulled my hand to sit close to him to thank me for the small gift for his bday. I stood up abruptly prob sent wrong signal. Again more hugs and he kept stopping here and there to look in eyes. Just a two hour visit and hard for him w/school. Next day he insisted when i said it was okayif he was busy that i had other plans he asked if he could call and insisted even though it was out of his comfort zone to venture out!! 3d visit less than 3 wks ago same big grin walked around nd he took me to this waterfall park we just talked on a bench he always looks me in the eyes and told me my eyes looked very blue and i smelled nice!! Very respectful. I asked him what the name of the park is and he looked at me and said the Love park. That is really what it was, it just so happened we were just having a quick visit and it was there. NO we never kissed but i really think he is sweet, i am shy and know that somewhere there is a gf i think. So still texts not so much flirting but has to talk talk talk talk now i am done and told him it is affecting me. Again last sunday phone ringing off hook last two nights text y wonte i talk to him blah blah blah!!! now it will be the same i love you as a friend best friends i am sorry. I am waiting for the phone call he is depressed we usually feel the same way ironically! I know when he is sad and will call me if i ask him or when i was sick he wanted to help me. He made me a hand made card that i requested seeing he has no money being in college and all. Signed it from so and so...Now it is almost time i will get that y will u not talk to me? or the sob story to get my attention at 2 in the a.m. This is his usual behavior!! of course, a lot more texts and he never gets tired of me. lol. Oh and by the way i am told i am pretty and guys love to talk to me, but not one bit conceited. Complete opposite of that girl and 80llbs lighter nd well much prettier i am told. So guys you are all basically programmed the same way. For a piece of mind what is with this guy and why does he keep insisting on me talking and his best pal???? I mean i am realistic but he has 2 know i like him some what, my friend anonymously said i said he was like a friendship on fire. I could have killed her, but i am shy so maybe it was a good thing. He still talks. Maybe that is the best friends thing. lol Oh ya i have gotten messages w/ a 19 yr old guy crying and upset that i would not talk! He has friends 2 and a lot of new ones. What is so different about me???
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Answer:
I would suggest asking the same question again but write a smaller text. most of us are too busy to read the whole thing xD
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