What constitutes abuse nowadays?

What constitutes as child abuse?

  • My father constantly yells at me, and just today he threatened to "slap me so hard". I'm not sure if this constitutes as child abuse, or whether it's just a parent's right. I'm 14 years old, and I like to think I'm a good kid, but maybe I'm doing something wrong? I've got a 4.0 GPA, I don't do drugs, nor do I drink alcohol, nor do I smoke. I think it may be because he thinks I should be more "manly", as ridiculous as it seems, because he doesn't approve of me being a nerd. Maybe I just rub him the wrong way? This is the first time he's ever threatened me, but I'm not sure if I should report this as child abuse. Please help.

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    if he threatened you, that is illegal.verbal abuse is indeed abuse, but you probably wont get removed from your home for it. but child welfare may come talk to your father about it if you report it. you are not doing anything wrong honey. if you are doing something wrong, your father should sit you down and say " hey son, you need to do such and such" not yell at you and threaten to hurt you. if he doesn't like that you are a nerd , then too bad for him, you be who you are and you be proud of yourself, and when it comes time for you to be a father, you remember this and treat your child with loving care and respect always. i wish you the best

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Talk to a close family member or any trusted adult figure and they will give you good advice. But you shouldnt have to live with someone telling you that. Answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqPN4gAA9XMNBjcIlZKu2PfC7BR.;_ylv=3?qid=20120506213801AASKccg

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Verbal abuse (also known as reviling) is best described as a negative defining statement told to you or about you; or by withholding any response thus defining the target as non-existent. If the abuser doesn't immediately apologize and rarely indulge in a defining statement, the relationship may be a verbally abusive one. cite: "The Verbally Abusive Relationship" 1992, 1996, 2010 by Patricia Evans. In schools a young person may indulge in verbal abuse - bullying (bullying often has a physical component) to gain status as superior to the person targeted and to bond with others against the target. Generally the bully knows no other way to connect emotionally ie. be bonded with others. cite: "Controlling People" Adams Media Corp: 2002 by Patricia Evans pg.191. In couple relationships the verbal abuser responds to the partners "separateness" i.e, independent thoughts, views, desires, feelings, expressions (even of happiness) as an irritant or even an attack. cite: "Controlling People" Adams Media Corp: 2002 by Patricia Evans. While some people believe the abuser has low self esteem and so attempts to place their victim in a similar position, i.e. to believe negative things about him or herself this is not usually the case in couple relationships. A man may for example, disparage a woman partner simply because she has qualities that were disparaged in him, i.e., emotional intelligence, warmth, receptivity and so forth.[citation needed] A person of any gender, race, culture, sexual orientation, age, or size may experience verbal abuse. Typically, in couple or family relationships verbal abuse increases in intensity and frequency over time. cite: "The Verbally Abusive Relationship" Adams Media Corp: 1992, 1996, 2010 by Patricia Evans. After exposure to verbal abuse, victims may fall into clinical depression and/ or post-traumatic stress disorder. The person targeted by verbal abuse over time may succumb to any stress related illness. Verbal abuse creates emotional pain and mental anguish in its target. Talk to someone close to you. They can help. Above is the definition

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