How do i narrow my time on yahoo answers?

This is the first time I ask a question on yahoo answers and I need serious help please. I'm in high school?

• For 4 years and I've liked him for 3 and a half years, I've been with him thought thick and thin. We get along well, we mess with Escher, joke around, txt late, call, and hang out. He has been cheated on and used and I have comforted him and told him he deserves better and he will get someone better. I love him I can't stop thinking about him, I defend him, I m different, he's always been there for me too. I've told him how I feel about him but he always tells me the same **** that he only likes me as a friend and doesn't want to lose that. It makes mad that he would date anyone who would hurt him when I would never do that. I'm not talking to him right now cuz I'm tired mad, sad, everything. But every time I look at him I lose myself and I miss him so much

• Answer:

  hmm if he already said that he only likes you as a friend then I think you have to learn to cope with this or risk loosing a great friendship. It's not easy when you really like a friend and you want more but they don't.. Not being able to control your emotions and feelings toward him will destroy your friendship, and it sounds as if it is already eroding it now. There is no real cure for what you are going through, its not often that a switch flicks in a friend and suddenly they want more also, even if hollywood tries to tell you otherwise. You just have to continue with your friendship and try to not let your feelings for him make you angry, jealous or cloud your judgement....only time can tell what is in store for your future, you may meet an awesome guy later down the track who will make you think "omg i can't believe i wanted more from X, as I would've never gotten together with Y" Try your hardest to not let these unreciprocated feelings ruin a great friendship. Great friends are hard to come by so nurture and respect what you have.