Wiring help need wiring diagram for 3 way switch with two lights each octagon box with two 3 wire n 1 2 wire?

There are too many ways this could go, so my suggestion is to go to this site which has illustrations and three different possible wiring diagrams. It is a site for regular folks about wiring a three way switch: not a technical heavy site: http://www.electrical-online.com/3wayswitch/

Okay Robbie, stay close. I'll try to take you step by step. 3-way switches are used when you want to turn on and off a light (or fan) from one of two locations. There will always be two junction boxes in the wall: one for each switch. Each actual switch will have three active connections: NO (normally open), NC (normally closed) and C (common). Remember these connections. You must get them right. You will also usually have a ground connection to the switch. There will be a 2-conductor cable (plus ground) coming into each junction box. One cable goes to the load (light, fan, etc.), and the cable in the other box goes to line (breaker). You can determine which is the line by resetting the breaker for that circuit, and checking the black wire in each box with a voltage tester. The one that gives you an indication comes from your breaker. The black-white-copper cable in the other junction box should go to your load. Connecting the two junction boxes will be 14-3 cable (3-conductor, #14 AWG) cable. One wire will be white, one red, and one black. Trip the breaker for this circuit before starting. Starting with either junction box, wire the black from the 2-conductor cable to the C (common) terminal on the 3-way switch. Wire the black and red of the 3-conductor cable to the NO (normally open) and NC (normally closed) terminals of the switch. It really doesn't matter which one goes where. Wire nut the two white wires together and of course, connect the copper wires to the ground screw on the switch or to the junction box. Repeat this process on the other junction box. Wire it in the same manner as the first. That's it. You should now be able to control the load from either switch. That's all there is to it. A word of caution. It is possible for your house or that circuit to be wired incorrectly. Black must be hot (120 volts), white must be neutral (0 volts) and copper must be ground (0 volts). Make all your measurements to ground. The hot (black) wire is the only one that should ever be switched in a residential circuit for safety reasons.

Start over in the attic. Install a connection box or replace the wire back to another box. Then you know the wire colors are correct. After that make the needed modifications to the wiring as needed. Any other solution is temporary and very dangerous. No splice should be made except in an approved junction box.