Is there something I can do to get rid of facial scaring?

How can i get rid of my wife without getting regret?

• my wife does stupid things to me. she backbite and slander my mother and my sister and every one that she like to and she knows that i hate this thing.she is so rude and ambitious... ever time that i want to change the situation and i ignore her bad manners she abuse getting more cheeky and sauco. i want to leave her but really im scary about loneliness... despite really i know that she can be the one that i love... i dont love her but im scary about leaving her... something that is intersting is that she never wanna leave me and more intersting thing is that ,she is scaring of her family(her neice ,cousins. aunt and uncle that all of them are bad together) thought about her...you know we are in traditional country, but even in my country such mens are strange. help what can i do( really i know she can't be my buddy) but im scary about my own loneliness and the memries even bad ones... she cant get better.... please answer

• Answer:

  Life is filled with choices and not every one we make will be the correct one. You must first accept that reality. You need to take control of your life, not your wife. You sound as though you believe yourself to be helpless and weak. You are much stronger than you imagine. Stand up to your wife about the slander, rude behavior, back-biting, and bad manners. Let her know that there will be consequences for such actions. One of those consequences is that she will find herself living alone, without financial support because you will divorce her. Do not back down. She will surely try you to see if you are sincere about your threat. Especially in third world countries there is much more to loose if you are a woman than if you are a man.