Why I always fail, always lose?
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i normally never write to such forums but today i feel like i'm just a total failure, i'm 27 years old and i dont remember the time when i got successful or win anything, i remember my kindergarten it all started from there, i never was able to do anything right, i used to fail over in all the activity and never used to get any appreciation from any teacher, then came my high school i was always bad in studies although i used to try so hard, "i cant believe it that i'm crying while writing this" i dont know whether someone will read this or not or even give a **** but its so true i never win i just lose, in my job i used to work so hard but never got promoted, in fact as i resigned all the new guys got promoted and then i started doing MBA and now i'm leaving that too, i work so hard in all the courses know more than my classmates but get C grade, work my *** off in term report but always get C grade, i just lose no matter how much i try, now i've got no job my studies are going to end and all i have is hopelessness and helplessness, i just wanted to get a simple job and cant get that even, no matter what i do it just fail, i dont know where to go and what to do.
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Answer:
Feeling like a failure isn't good. Everyone is good at something, it might just take a while to find it. Some excel at a sport, some maybe excel at studies, some at art, some at fixing things, other people excel at being a good friend, a good listener etc. You are not a failure. Maybe you are just a bit low right now? It's good you wrote, don't be sad and bottle it up. Maybe chat to a doctor - depression is a mid balance of hormones, maybe a doctor could help you get a bit stronger and more positive? Or chat to family or friends. Live is short, take positive steps towards finding your happiness.
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Uh.. you seem to know proper english so i dunno why u cant hold a job. I think you should make some friends, friends are key to success because many of them would have connections to jobs, opportunities, etc. and can be very helpful. Im not gonna tell you to think your a winner and will eventually win because im sure you already thought of that, just dont try so hard. Instead of trying to make others happy, make yourself happy. Once your happy, then others will see that in you. I mean tell me this, would you rather make friends or employ a person who looks depressed, or someone who looks content. And yes, your sadness is visible through your appearance even if you dont think so. Trust me.
ChillaxxRelaxx
Well I. Sounds to me that you got the intelligence but may just be lacking in a skill like perhaps time management is it just you don't turn things in or late or you forget? Do u just procrastinate studies n do it all the night before? Abt the assignments if u just forget it write it down, have someone remind you, tell yourslef over and over agn what to remember and visulize it, get a reminder for your phone. It's hard to say what to do when I don't know for sure te cause though
Amora
Some of us are just doomed to fail. I too am 27 and fairly losery. Thats okay, I've made a nice living writing about my failures. They are very entertaining. Use your experience creatively. And give yourself a break.
JENNY
Well, the failure is the first step to success; DO your best to reach ur goal, even if u failed in it, u r the winner...
Sara
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