How can you tell if a guy likes you?

How can you tell if a guy likes you? Guys: How do you act around girls you like?

• So here's the details. You don't have to read this and you can just answer the question above if you want. I am 13 years old and I really like this guy. I wouldn't ask him out because I'm pretty young but I was wondering if he likes me or not. He tells jokes around me. He closes my locker when i'm not getting my stuff to annoy me. He teases me a little bit about my hair color and height. But everyone was watching a lacrosse game and one of my crushs' best friends was shouting to another girl "Do it for (name of crush)!" like 8 times. Idk if he likes her because his best friend would know, right? I was pretty sad and jealous. He talks to her a lot too. He throws erasers at her & me. So I have no idea...the other day someone walking through the hallway saw us and told us we looked like an old married couple :D ahha. he was like "what? nooo.." Do you think he likes me? Do you think he likes the other girl? How do you (as a guy) act when you like someone?

• Answer:

  Just like my question I just asked!!!! I think he likes both of you. For one minute forget fear and say something. If you decide to talk to him don't prepare yourself the whole day to talk to him or you'll get too scared only think of it once you see him, breathe and say something. Whatever you do don't be self conscious about every little thing around him. Remember he's human don't make yourself see him as a god because he's not. He has insecurities, embarassing moments, gets mad, cries, and etc. just like you. When I finally talked to my crush I just kicked the bucket and said something small and I realized its not really scary to talk to him and I was flooding with confidence afterwards. • Say something simple *Ask a question about a class your in together. Even if you already know the answer or a friends in the same class just ask. You'll be able to think of 1,000,000 reasons to not to but ignore them and just do it. *Compliment him always another option. Either compliment his hair, his top, or full ensemble. But if the shoes/bottoms are really cool then feel free to compliment. • Make eye contact *Doing this makes you appear confident, trustworthy, and friendly. If you can't look him right in the eyes stare in between them, his forehead, or nose. *Don't stare or glare but smile with your eyes as you speak and listen. Practice this in the mirror if needed. • Smile *Smile naturally and calmy. Smile whenever you see him and make eye contact or while in conversation. Frequent genuine smiles is goid for subtle flirting. • Breathe *Pretty obvious but remembering everything and as you speak to him you can subconciously be so tense and stop breathing. Not like you'll die but just look uncomfortable. • Listen *When I talked to my crush that was the hardest thing because your so focused on not looking stupid or their beauty or whatever you forget to actually listen. *Make sure when you answer the respone applies to the conversation. Give nods and uh huhs to reassure him your listening as well. • Get acquainted through electronics (i.e. Facebook friend, texting, twitter) *Once you two are pass the acquaintance stage make sure to get his contact info and add him on FB. *Socializing with him over the computer or your cell is always good because it takes the pressure off the both of you and you can be more calm and really show off your presonality and you don't have to worry about the cat getting your tongue over a keyboard as well! *Don't use too many emoticons or have an annoying signature. But one that's really you and unique. It could be a great conversation. Don't get him in trouble by texting him too late, over his text limit, or being innapropriate. * If you feel its time this can always be a great time to tell him how you feel as well. Hope I helped! (Apologize for any typos)