How can I stop making assumptions?

How do I get my mom to stop making assumptions about my popular type friends?

  • My taiwanese friend who joined my school in 8th grade is a popular type girl (if you know what I mean) and I guess I consider myself in between popular type and unpopular type. At first, she could only speak a few English basic phrases. A couple of Singaporean girls and I (well I had the worst mandarin out of those two) helped her to adjust to an English speaking environment. I was the one who helped her the most because those other Singaporean girls thought speaking Mandarin would help but obviously that doesn't. As the academic year progressed, we found out that we have a lot in common. When my Mom and grandmother met her in person for the first time, she immediately told me in private that: 1. once her English in fluent, she may move on from you and I told her that she is right in a way but I also told her that this may not be true because you can't judge someone before getting to know the person. 2. she could be a bad influence on me if I spend time with her more than my other friends. How can I get her to stop because it's getting really annoying and she says she can pin point someone's personality from looking at their face and the way they dress. My taiwanese friend is one of my best friends and I would never do anything to hurt her feelings and make her think I don't like her for who she is. She's one of the sweetest people I've met in my entire life and she's done so much for me like getting me to hang out with guys and vice versa for me. I played my part of being one of her biffles by helping her in her English and other subjects and we're like surgically attached to the hip.

  • Answer:

    So she is hot then and dresses like it too? Just try and explain it to your mom, you can't judge a person based entirely on appearances. Then possibly cite some examples.

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