I really need help can you guys please help me ! Los Angeles or Montréal?
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Hi you guys and thanks for takin the time to read this and help me out ! Okay so I live in Houston and well I went to go vist my dad in Los Angeles in April of this year 4-4-12. And well it was the worst thing I ever went through ! My dad used to be an ex alcoholic and well he has been sober ever since November of last year (2011). Okay so he left my mommy in may or June of last year (2011) and he went to LA and me and him didn't see each other ever since then, but I got the chance to go see him this April and well he works as a mechanic with his brother ( his brother owns the body shop ) and well I'm sure as some of you know that's a really dirty job ! Well okay so many of you know LA has a lot of old and ugly houses and really small ones and well the house smells really bad and the walls are full of Greese well like the places they touch the most ! Even the shower and well it was hell for me !!! My mom told me ( I'm a 14 year old boy ) that I would go through hell but I never believed her so I jus went and she was right about ever thing !! And I broke down so many times that day I can't even Remeber ! I know I know I'm a boy but those conditions where just HELL ! I wanted to leave LA the first 3 hours ! That's how bad it was ! But I ended up staying the stay was from 4-4-12 through 4-8-12 but then like we went out to like Disneyland , hollywood , and Santa Monica ! I forgot about all the things at the house when we went out but I still wanted the day I was going back home to come really fast ! But I don't have a clue why my dad would not but me in a hotel ?!?!? By the way it was the first time meeting my dads side of the family I guess that's why ! but like the day that I left LA at the airport I promised my dad that I would come back in july of 2012 and I don't have a clue why I said that ! My mom always hated that side of the family and now I know why ! But any ways like my mommy saids it's just better for me to go to Canada ! This December 2012 ! And Im really thinking about ! But I love my moms side of the family in Montreal ! They are clean and they live in a kinda big house like mine ( don't mean to brag ) but yeah like my mom told me I will put you in first class like me and you alway travel but I will not put you in first class going to LA only coming back ! I don't have a clue why that is ??! But yeah and she will not pay for a hotel in LA unless it is me and her only and not going to see my dad ! Yeah I know it's weird ! I really hate that side of my dads family they aren't alcoholics by the way they are extremely good people ! ( by the way my mom is a air traffic controller for Bush Intercontiental airport here in Houston ( the international airport here ) and well I really mostly travel by my self ! :/ but yeah I still have fun but I realy don't know what to do you guys either go this July to LA or Montreal in Decemeber ?!? But I can get around easy because me and my mom speak French and thats the lanugage over in Montreal well they speak english to an I also know English duhh lol ! But yeah please help me out you guys !!! I really would thank you ! My mother never wants me to go back to LA but I just don't know ..well thank you !! You guys hope yu can help me out in this promblem !
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Answer:
You may be required to visit your father according to court orders, in that case make yourself useful and clean the house so it's acceptable to you. You're 14, you're old enough to do that. If you or your mom go against court orders, or if your dad goes to court to get visitation, you may end up staying in LA, in that house, for longer than you'd like. Hotels cost money, around $100 a night is a typical nightly minimum for a LA motel, and you're too young to legally stay in one alone. Good luck!
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So, you just need to choose whats right for you. If you want to see your dad really bad, then do. Who cares if your moms uncomfortable with it. Maybe you can call a few days ahead to ask him to clean up. If that doesn't work, bring some cleaning supplies to help your dad clean up the first day! :) (i know that may be boring but it's worth hanging out with your dad) Or, you can go to Montreal to see your other side of the family. It would be great to see them if you don't see them as often, then you could always see your dad next year. You just need to choose you would like to spend your time with. Good Luck!
Kat
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